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Ladies Watch Out For This Woman Hater

Misogyny may be too strong of a word to use, but we can’t deny the fact that there are many men out there who share somewhat same feelings. Girls have to be careful about all kinds of guys, the desperate ones who want are only looking for the physical intimacy, the geeks who will never be smart enough to make a move, the clingy ones who will make your life living hell but above all these types, there is one that must be avoided at all costs. These are the guys who have an innate hate towards women since the very beginning. These are the men you should definitely watch out for. This article is going to give you a few signs that should immediately tell if the guy in front is a woman hater.

#1 He does not value your feelings

This guy will only show the emotions that he is feeling. Your happiness or sadness means nothing to him. The only thing he will care about is that not at any point you are able to overpower him. Letting your feelings out to him will, therefore, be a total waste of time.

#2 He comments on the looks of other women or girls

A misogynist will always be commenting on other girls, particularly about their physical appearance. These observations are always going to be negative and will ridicule the other woman. He will continuously be insulting and undermining women, and this will get worse if you stay quiet.

#3 He will make fun of your emotional state

If at any time you make the mistake of sharing your feelings with him, the only thing he will do is probably make fun of it. For instance, if you are sad or crying, he will laugh it off by taunting you about you having a PMS. Nothing will be convincing enough for him to show some care.

#4 He does not let you speak

Ever discussion, argument, and plan will be based on his preferences. He will make sure that you are never able to voice your opinion because whenever you will, he will cut off by bringing up something else. Being with him most of the times will mean that you just have to shut yourself and just listen to all that he has to say.

#5 It is always your fault

You will definitely get into fights, but isn’t that normal? Every couple fights. The different thing here will be that every time he will manage to shape the whole scenario in such a way that all the blame goes on you. For him, because you are a woman you are bound to make mistakes and therefore it will always be your fault.

#6 Control over your sexual side means you are a slut

If you are a sexually confident woman who knows how to carry her body and is in control of her sexual energy, then this misogynist has one word for you, SLUT.

 


How To Know Your Guy Friend Has Started Crushing On You?

Friendships are precious because you don’t find those kinds of people normally in life. It takes a great deal of time to finally someone you can connect at that wavelength and have them become an integral part of your life. Friendships aren’t restricted to just the same gender, in fact, it is the personality that makes the decisive factor. A lot of girls have guy best friends whom they have been sharing their life for quite a while. They are great friends because things never got awkward between them, but what if one day you find out that your only best friend now likes you. If any such thing develops then it is extremely important that you know it, this article is going tell you few of those signs that guarantee if your guy friend is crushing on you.

#1 You catch him staring at you a lot

Normal friends don’t stare at you without any reason. Sure, they will stare at you when you get a new haircut, or there is some change in your appearance or just in anger. But, no guy friend will stare at you without any reason. If you catch him staring at you multiple times throughout the day, then there is definitely something fishy.

#2 He gets embarrassed easily

Good friends never get embarrassed in front of each other. They could be peeing their pants, but they still wouldn’t get embarrassed. If after some time you notice your friend getting awkward on small things or avoiding some sensitive topics, then that definitely means he feels for you.

#3 He is not acting like his usual self

You know the kind of personality your friend has, and now you have gotten used to it. When he develops some feelings for you, he will start acting all formal and organized. He will be careful in not doing certain things, and he will be a little too possessive about you. He will call you more often, and his tone now will be slightly changed. If he takes on this different personality, then you should get the hint.

#4 The no of hangouts have doubled

While previously you used to hang out only when the two of you had time, now you will notice that every day he will try to initiate a hangout and you will find yourself spending most of your days with him. He is trying to spend more time with you, and he is definitely crushing on you.

#5 He does any favor for you

Friends are always there for you but sometimes, owing to something more important they will refuse as well. He, however, will always be present for you and will be more than willing to do anything that you say. He will do it even if he has to go out of his comfort zone for that.

#6 He gets annoyed when you talk about other guys

This is probably the most direct hint that he will not at all show positive attitude when you talk about other guys or worse talk about any of your new crush. You will see the instant change in his behavior and that is the greatest hint.


How to Get Your Man To Marry You

Getting into a relationship is surely tough, but when you finally do get into one, the feeling is the best one in the world. Girls are usually really emotional about their love life, and soon after getting into a perfect relationship, they start making plans about their life after marriage. Who doesn’t want to enjoy that great white wedding and being with the one person they love the most? Almost every girl! For guys, however, the situation is slightly different. Most of the guys aren’t the marriage type, and it would take them a good amount of time before finally thinking of settling with someone for the rest of their life. A guy needs to be mentally ready to make this decision. This article is going to guide you on some of the ways you can get your man to get ready for the big move.

#1 Be the perfect girlfriend

You need to make him feel that you are the best girl that he can get. Love him loads and get him to feel special all the time. Do a little more than what all other girlfriends do and be the perfect woman for your man. Make him realize that you are all what he really needs.

#2 Take care of him

Taking care of him in all the big and small things is always going to be likable. You should know about his routine so that you know exactly what he needs all the time. Make food for him and pack it when he goes off to work, keep his clothes ready and be even more careful if he ever catches a cold. This all will make him rely on you for small things, and he will realize that he cannot live without you.

#3 Be his biggest fan

You should be his personal cheerleader. Encourage him on all his achievements whether big or small. Ask him about his passion and desires in life and support him in all that. Show him that you believe in his capabilities. Never let him give up on anything be a constant support for him.

#4 Be honest about what you want

Guys are usually dumb when it comes to understanding the mind of girls. There may be a possibility that he never thinks that you want a long term relation with him due to which he never pops the question. You need to give him some clear hints and sometimes it is even better to just tell him clearly of the thoughts that go on in your mind regarding your relationship. That will plant that thought in his mind, and he will think about it at some point.

#5 Don’t scare him

Be careful that you don’t irritate him by constantly bringing up the topic of marriage. Guys don’t like clingy girls, and this constant pressure will make him get tired of you. He will prefer sitting alone than talking to you because he will fear that you will always annoy him with the same topic. So, try to keep it slow and steady.


Anxious Personality: Reasons To Date, An Anxious Person

Anxiety is defined to be a feeling of unease, worry, and nervousness typically associated with an uncertain happening or an imminent event. But what I believe it is not something about a certain event or not being sure about what is going to happen next, it is more than the panic attacks that lies right under the skin of an anxious person, ready to ooze out at any moment and for any reason.

Dating someone with anxiety does not ignite any definite idea to your mind, but seriously these people have qualities which some people can only dream of. So here I am to let you know about these anxious people and the reasons why you should get hold of them.

Concerned People are ridiculously creative

Being creative does not mean that they can draw well. It means that if you want to know about any scenario – either good or wrong; they can give you a better picture of everything. They have wild imaginations, and you can just ask them about anything you want to. They have the ability to advice very well like if you are going for your job interview, or if you are stuck and want some different ideas, they can come up with brilliant ideas.

They are always over prepared for everything

So if you planned out a picnic, the anxious person is the one who makes sure that everything is packed perfectly well. They have different scenarios coming up to their minds, and thus they will prepare the bags and stuff it with things that will help in every sort of situation that might come up. Like keeping a first aid box or it might rain so have the umbrellas and raincoats packed along, etc.

You will never have to make guesses that whether they are upset or not

Yes! No need to take a wild guess. When they are mad at you, their body language simply expresses it out.

But why is this good thing? Of course, it will be helpful in resolving the issues immediately. Communication becomes better. On the other hand, where people keep the issues to their hearts, they are piled up and eventually explode which is highly unhealthy for the relationships.

They wear their emotions on their sleeves

People with anxiety tend to have very little or simply no control over their emotions. Even if they want to, they can’t. They just simply can’t hide. They will say and compliment what they want to. And even if they stay quiet, you can judge about their feelings from just one look at them.

They are always focused on what is important to them

They visualize their future, and they keep their focus on it. They pay attention to what is important for their lives and future of course. So when they have their focus on you, they will never catch up in any drama and will not worry about the unnecessary things like outfits and makeup. To them, it is YOU that matters because YOU mean so much to them.

Trust me! Anxious people possess the qualities that are not found in your everyday person, and they are an incredible asset of your life.

 

 


Breakup To Makeup: Ways To Give Love A Second Chance

Well, sometimes break up happens which we do not want. Parting from your significant one, we feel worse and start to regret after some time. Then after a few months, we realize that break up is not the right solution, and we want to reunite. It happens. But from the break up to make up, is it that easy?

Second chance is never an easier one. Couples may not let go of the things that happened in the past, and consequently, it leads to another breakup.

Getting back with your ex is a tough decision. You have to set a lot of things back together. But if you feel like you should take a step forward towards your ex and give it a try again then go for it. But to make it perfect this time, you need to follow a few tips to get back together for better this time.

Talk about your problems

Obviously, there must be issues that led you two apart. Sit together and sort each and every issue openly. No need to hide or set things aside. Clear everything up and then take a fresh start together.

Set Boundaries

As you are starting it all over again, define your rules and set limits. What is okay and what is not okay. Get agreed to the things that are important to both of you. Setting boundaries will be helpful in avoiding the previous mistakes and make your relationship much happier.

Have a better communication

Having a good communication will never let any relationship to break apart. Your break up may have happened because of a very little problem which could have been easily resolved by communicating with each other. So, this time improve your communication level and discuss everything before making up stories all by yourself which promotes conflicts.

Discuss the future

If you both have finally decided to get back together, then first thing is to discuss your future. Talk to each other openly and if you see that you two can make a perfect future together then making a relationship is worthwhile. But if there come the difference then I guess making up is not a good idea.

Assess your true feelings

Before moving on back together, you need to assess your feelings. Do you love your partner? Or is it just that you were so used to them and now you get bored when you do not find them around you.

So, if you cannot reciprocate the same feelings that they possess for you or if you do not feel the same way that things were used to be then it is better to keep the break up permanently.

Make necessary changes in the relationship

Obviously, there has been something wrong previously that led you to the breakup. So you have to make the changes to make things work out positively in future.

Well, if you think that your relationship deserves a second chance then give it a try with the help of these tips to work it out to be a better one this time.


Ways To Back Out Of The Date Without Being Rude

Things do not seem to work well at times, and life can get in the way of our romance. No matter how bad we feel that date is going to be or we might be stuck up in the t crises, we have to think about the people who are involved in it.

If you do not have any interest, then do not agree to go out on the date at the first place. Tell them clearly that you are not interested before they invest any more time in the relationship which is not going to work out. It is known as to be a common courtesy.

How to cancel a date properly?

Not showing up or canceling a date at the last minute leaves a bad impression. So, what should be done that it won’t leave your supposed to be date offended?

  • If you do not feel like going and has decided to cancel it, then let them know at least a day earlier without looking rude. At the last moment will make your situation more awkward and tends you to tell lies just to spare their feelings.
  • The thought of canceling within the day, then let them know at least a few hours earlier. Make sure that it should be the time before they have started their preps.
  • It is vital to give them a valid reason for the cancellation of your date.
  • If you have to lie then, please come up with a proper story to believe. Do not tell something bogus that can be easily called out.
  • If you are still interested in meeting this person, then give them a specific date and time for the days to come. This will also ensure the other person that you want to meet them in future.
  • Be sincere to the person. If you expect chances of reschedules, tell them that you will plan it out some other day.
  • Never give any person a false hope. If you have no plans in meeting them again, just make it clear to them. Do not keep them waiting for you.

Legitimate Reasons to leave the date:

Canceling the date earlier comes in good manners but what happens when you are already on the date? Well, whatever the reason may be your exit should be dignified one. However, there are only a few reasons that can make you leave in the middle of the date:

  • If you find that person to be extremely cruel and selfish, just leave.
  • If you find your date, they have made themselves out to be someone that they are not then you have all the right to walk away
  • If you have an urgent call which is something very important, only then you can leave.

How to leave your date?

No matter how worse is the situation, be a big person and leave your date politely.

  • A tummy ache always work
  • Tell your date that your friend needs help and you need to go out immediately
  • Tell that your boss has asked you to do something right now.

Going out on the date give you the opportunity to get to know each other, but if you do not feel like going out or want to leave in the middle, then you can get the help from the reasons mentioned above.


Have Cold Feet On A Date? Ways To Gain Confidence

Some people are confident enough to face almost everything but others do have difficult times with it especially when it comes to their very first date. Confidence is undoubtedly an essential part of your date. If you lack confidence, you date is going to consider it your weakness. And if you are over confident then he/she will find it to be cheap and arrogant which is again not a good sign.

Confidence is a comfortable disposition towards yourself and to the rest of the people around you. It is not any abrupt change that you have to bring into your personality. People usually lose confidence when they start thinking that what other people will think about them. No need to bother about anyone and do what makes you happy and relaxed.

How do you attain confidence?

Everyone have something to be proud of. Something that makes them feels happy about them. So, firstly you need to assess that what is in you that you should be confident about.

List down your good qualities

Now please do not tell me that you do not have any. Every person possesses something good in them. It is not only the looks that you have to be proud of. Dig something deep, and you will find your value. It might be your intelligence or your golden heart, just own it and feel proud of it.

List down you bad qualities and work on them

Along with the good qualities, do list down the bad ones. It is equally important to work on them and make them right. Look out for your weaknesses to strengthen them.

Wear something that looks good on you

How about changing your style? Do not topple your wardrobe upside down. Just wear something that suits you and enhances your features.

Talk to yourself in the mirror

Well, this has been one of the very famous tricks. Wake up every morning, walk to your mirror and tell yourself how beautiful you are, even though you do not believe it. This will be helpful in boosting up your confidence level, and it will give a fresh and happy start of the day.

Wear makeup when necessary and do not over excess it

Natural beauty is mystical, but putting up a little makeup can do wonders. Use makeup to the level to just enhance your features. Avoid using bold colors and highlights.

Wear High Heels

It helps the short height ones. Wear as much high as you can tolerate. It prevents you from slouching and keeps you straight up. Do not forget to try it around the house before walking to your date.

Smile

A smile gives a feeling of warmth. It will also encourage your date that in a sense you are enjoying their company. It will naturally make the environment comfortable between you two.

Being confident is a natural occurrence once you get over with your doubts. It enhances your self-esteem and open doors of success, happiness, and love for you.


Signs You Are Wasting Time In A One-Sided Relationship

Love is beautiful. But the question is that “is it working out for you?” Are you happy in it? Well, love can be built over time, or it might degrade you. It can become complicated for you to accept that your partner is getting out of your hands and there is nothing that you can do about it. On the other hand finding someone who will love you for the rest of your life is not easy, and maybe that is why we continue to stay in a terrible relationship. And this is what I believe isn’t fair with you as well as with your partner.

One day this one-sided relationship is going to turn off so what are you waiting for? To avoid pain, it is better to accept the reality and face the truth at the earliest rather than later. Read out the following pointers and consider your partner as well as yourself while going through these characteristics.

Your partner is comfortable with the routine

If you suggest changing something that happens on a daily basis, your partner protests about it; like you ask for the dinner out, and they grunt about it. They never allow room for change.

Your relationship is stale

After reading out the first one, you have reached the point in your relationship where everything is stale. It is YOU who always have to make out plans, and if they agreed to it, they would not be open for the occasion. Moreover, you have to plan out even for romance.

They put minimal effort when it comes to social situations

If you both are invited at a place, your partner may join you but will keep himself away from the people important to you. He most likely to stay quiet or will just reply if addressed otherwise he will never make any effort to spark the conversation.

They will keep you away from their important people

If your partner has some important family members and friends, but they keep you away from them, then this is a red flag. If he loved you, he would have never minded meeting you with his friends and family, and if they are doing so, then something is wrong which you need to be worried about.

Your partner takes you for granted

Small cute loving gestures keep your love life moving. But even these go unnoticed then it hurts very badly. Suppose you never want to bring your partner’s favorite food home back from work just to listen to a monotone “thanks.”

One sided openness

Maybe it is just you who talks about your day, your commitments, late projects, any family updates or friend drama. Perhaps you are the one who is open to discussing the issues and concerns related to your relationship. Does your partner play any role in it?

When do you feel you’re best?

This is a very serious question which you need to ask yourself. Do you feel better when your partner is with you? Or do you feel good and comfortable when he is not around?

Undoubtedly, a one-sided relationship may leave you depressed and dejected, but it can pave you a path to find the love of your life.


How to Deal With A Guy Who Never Gets Tired Of Lying?

Lying is something that is considered to be bad by everyone. Never should you lie to anyone and just try your best to state the truth everywhere. However, there are times when slightly changing the facts can gives no harm to anyone. For instance, your sister has done getting ready for her special night, and she asks you if she is looking good. Now, even if some part of her overall look isn’t looking nice, you can’t break her heart and let her efforts go to waste by being honest. In situations like these, lying a little is not bad. Now when we talk about relationships, they are solely built on honesty and trust. But life isn’t fair to everyone, and sometimes you are stuck with a partner who knows nothing than just lying all the time. This is really harmful to your mental health and therefore must be dealt with as soon as possible. This article is going to advise you a few ways of how you can deal with a guy that is always full of shit.

#1 Don’t acknowledge his lies first

The first and easiest thing you can do with someone who keeps spewing out lie after lie is to completely ignore him. You know that he is lying so it is only smart to stop reacting to whatever he says. This thing can help in a way that sometimes when people see that their behavior isn’t being recognized, then they just stop practicing it.

#2 Challenge his lies

Whenever he says something, and you feel like he is again making stuff up, then you should challenge him. You should ask instant and confusing details about whatever he is saying. In his defense, he will come up with more lies but if you keep asking for details then at some point there is a chance of him saying the truth instead.

#3 Call him out on the lies

Confronting him there and then for his lies can be the worst situation for him. Whenever he lies, just say that you know he is lying. It will put him in a state of confusion because he isn’t really used to people calling him a liar.

#4 Explain that you hate being lied to

If things get too out of hand and he is able to answer back to all your challenges, then this is the time when you should say that his lying hurts you. You should tell him that you do not appreciate this habit of his. If he has any feelings or care for you, then he might just stop lying.

#5 Talk to him about why he needs to lie

There could be a genuine reason behind all his lies like something that he always wants to please everyone. Whatever the reason may be, you should try to talk and discuss the issue with him.

#6 Help him overcome it

Show him that you’re willing to help him get rid of this habit and when he sees the care that you have for him, he will be equally willing to stop doing that.


Here’s Why Nice Guys Really Do Finish Last

If you think that by being the nice guy you can win her heart, then you are totally wrong here. Being too nice can backfire and get you rejected. It is important to be nice to women, but only at certain times. If they notice that you are being nicer than normal, then chances are they will either get bored of you, or they will just start to doubt if you are faking it. Some guys, however, have a nice nature and therefore they cannot help but be themselves. That originality too gets them bad luck. This article is going to talk about few ways that guys can get over their Mr. Nice syndrome.

#1 Admit it yourself

Before starting off with anything you need to first admit and accept that yes you are one of those “Mr.” nice guys, and this is becoming a huge hurdle in your way getting a date. Once you accept this, you can start thinking of ways of how to combat this issue.

#2 Stop lavishing her with gifts

Buying gifts at the wrong time or too soon will flip your whole situation. Women don’t like this at all when guys try to overdo stuff because then they will think that the guy is being too desperate or trying to achieve something too soon. Guys need to go with the flow and leave the gifts for some special occasion where it makes sense.

#3 Lay off the neediness

There is one think that you don’t want your girl to think about you, and that is her thinking that you don’t have a life. Even if you don’t, you need to pretend as if you do and make her realize that she is not the only thing in your life. Getting too clingy and needy will only irritate her.

#4 Learn to say no

Nice guys have this habit that they will never be able to refuse anything that their girl says. Even if they have to go out of their way or it goes against their will, they will never say no. Don’t forget that girls are noticing this and at one point this will rather become unattractive and boring for them. You need to learn how to take charge and say no to her, so she knows that you are equally opinionated.

#5 Stop being available

Spending time with your girl is good. It is not good and not healthy for any relationship to be always available for the other person. Nice guys will do anything to spend the whole day with their girl, but this needs to end. You need to show that you can be busy too at times and that your availability is not open for her at all times.

#6 Create some challenge

All the above things will be challenging for her because things will not always be going as per her say. Other than this you need to do things which she will not be expecting. For instance, stop yourself from texting or calling her exactly when she is expecting you to. This will put her in doubt and spark her competitive side thinking if you have another girl in your life.