It’s easy for us to tell if the guy our friends are dating is right for them, whether we like their boyfriends, and give them advice when they doubt their relationship. However, things aren’t easy when it comes to making our own decisions.
So, how do you figure out if your boyfriend is a keeper or is just using you as a fling? Here are three ways that you can tell if the man you’re dating is right for you or not:
1. Find Out What You Want In A Relationship
It’s sad to say that while looking for a relationship, most men and women don't take the time to sit and sincerely think what we actually want in a relationship. Most of us believe that love just come naturally to us. People who are successful have worked hard for it. They didn’t leave it to chance. Knowing what you want in a loving relationship enables you to make a smart choice while choosing the right man among many potential matches. Knowing what you want in a relationship gives you the ability to say no to someone who is not fulfilling what you’ve envisioned in a committed relationship. We suggest you ask yourself these questions; if you had everything you wanted, what will the first thing you choose? What does my perfect relationship feel like? If you can these questions, only then you can tell if the man you’re dating is the right person for you.
2. Check In With Your Feelings
The first kiss is always exhilarating. The sheer thrill and excitement of being adored is simply mind-blowing, and the desire to get more of it can become pretty addictive. If you meet your new man now and then, pause for a moment and ask yourself these four questions: How does he make me feel? Is it good, bad or indifferent? Am I comfortable being myself while with him? Am I attracted to him? Does he bring the best of me while with him? When you find the answers to these questions, stay present, live in the moment and see how it all evolves. If all of your answers are, “good or yes,” we can safely say you’re on the right path. Don’t stop asking these questions even if all the answers aren’t what you expected. As time progresses, what you want in your relationship will become apparent and the relationship will either thrive or fade away.
3. Don’t Worry Too Much Of The Outcome
Women, often, over think, especially when it comes to romantic relationships. They want to know the status of the relationship immediately or after going on a few dates with a man. They’re eager to know if he takes her seriously and where the relationship stands. Men will reveal their feelings to their partners quickly enough. He might not verbally express it, but his actions will show his actual feelings. So, our advice to all those single ladies looking for a date or who are already dating or in a relationship is to let go of the outcome and allow yourself to relax and just be present. If he calls you, answer it. If he texts you, reply. And if he asks you to go on a date with him, say yes. The right guy for you reveals himself when the time is right – always!