Do you want to learn how to take control of a girl’s emotions and make her fall for you almost instantly?
All you need to do is use a set of interesting and persuasive techniques to convince her that you’re the one.
It is easier than you think. All you need to do is use a set of interesting and persuasive techniques to convince her that you’re the one and make her depend on you on an emotional level so she never considers anyone else.
High School Girls Require a Different Strategy
Before we go any further, we’ve got to establish the fact that high school girls are a lot different than older women. High school girls (sorry to break it to you) aren’t as emotionally developed. They have self-esteem issues and are insecure about their decisions. So, high school girls use their relationships to feel good about themselves. By contrast, older women are thinking about the long term. They base their relationships on whether a guy is stable (good job) and wants to have kids.
If you are the super popular type, then just showing interest in the girl might be enough to get her to go out with you because your interest boosts her self-esteem. If you aren’t so popular (I’m assuming you aren’t), then you will have more work cut out for you. High school girls take cues from their friends. If her friends don’t like you, then you have pretty much no chance of getting her to be your girlfriend. She might not even talk to you without getting the validation from her friends first.
Keep reading to find out how to control a girl’s emotions successfully through the execution of a few secret psychological techniques…
Technique Number One:
You have probably noticed by now that high school girls are naturally compliant. If you tell her to wait for you after school, she will. If you tell her that you don’t like her hair color, she will dye it tomorrow. If you tell her that you won’t be her boyfriend anymore unless she has sex with you…
With the proper technique, you can use this natural compliance to your advantage.
By asking (or implying) a girl to do something for you, you are send her cues that you are dominant. High school girls are attracted to dominance. Just look at all those cliques of girls who flock around the dominant girl who orders them around ceaselessly.
To get a girl’s attention, start by showing her your dominance. Start small by asking her to do small things for you, like passing a message on to someone in class or picking up something for you. Over time, you will establish her role as being compliant to you.
Trust me, this might sound weird but it really works. It’s a subtle way of conveying deep self-confidence without really needing to do much at all.
You can use a mind hack technique such as propinquity to do this easily – we’ll come back to this in a minute.
Technique Number Two:
Control The Conversation
I know you want a girlfriend in high school (and your social status probably depends on it!), but you also don’t want to be stuck listening to your girlfriend as she drones endlessly on about some stupid topic like what Jenny from bio was wearing today.
To get a girlfriend in high school, you’ve really got to learn how to control the conversation.
The first benefit of this is that you won’t have to sit through boring conversations anymore (though it doesn’t really count as a conversation when she’s doing all the talking). The second benefit is that you get to show your dominance.
Yes, I understand that high school boys can be a bit shy and you haven’t had much time to master the art of conversation and flirting. But it doesn’t have to be difficult.
Here is how you control a conversation: Every time it is going in a direction you don’t like or which doesn’t benefit your goal, then bring up a new topic of conversation. Of course, you can’t just cut her off, ignore what she was just talking about, and say something new. That would be rude. You can however use the “rule of association.”
Under the rule of association, you can pick any word from what she was talking about and use it to start a new conversation. So, if she is droning on about “my summer vacation to Bermuda where I met this really cute guy…”, then you can grab the word “summer” and start talking about anything related to summer. It will be considered a logical flow of conversation. You can read more about this in our post about what to say to a girl the first time.
Another tactic you can use to control the conversation is to ask her something about herself. She will respond really well to this!
Remember: don’t ever let a girl reminisce about her past relationships while you are seducing her, you could ruin your chances with her altogether.
Shut that conversation down quickly and ask her about her friends or family.
Technique Number Three:
Let Her Emotions Conflict
There is one easy technique that you can learn on how to control a high school girl’s emotions and make her want to be your girlfriend badly.
With this technique, you can actually make any girl feel happy whenever she is around you and sad whenever you aren’t around.
This technique is considered to be quite underhanded, though – which is why a lot of guys shy away from it.
However, if you are having trouble learning how to control a girl’s emotions successfully, then you might want to take this technique into consideration someday anyway.
This technique is known as fractionation. Basically, it is a type of mind control which works by keeping a girl confused. You make her work to keep your attention. This preys on her low self-esteem. It also prevents her from becoming too comfortable with you and losing interest. Fractionation is actually a pretty complex technique to get into here. You can find out more about it in our free guide to flirting.
Technique Number Four:
In a nutshell, this technique uses a kind of soft hypnosis and can help you take full control of a girl’s emotions up to the point where she starts associating all of her emotions and thoughts with you. You shouldn’t use this technique whenever you feel like it! It can have really powerful effects which may be long-lasting. You might find that a girl has become addicted to you for life, whether you like it or not!
In order to hypnotize a girl successfully, just use your conversations as a carrier of hypnotic suggestions. Now, this isn’t your standard hypnosis show in which some weird guy taps you on the head and says “You will now go into a deep sleep.” Instead, conversational hypnotic suggestion would be along the lines of, “Sooner or later you’ll find yourself wondering about going into a deep trance. And you may do that suddenly or gradually.”
Because the words are suggestions rather than being clearly defined, the person suddenly starts scratching her subconscious to fill in the pieces and decide how the sentence applies to her life. While she is doing this, she is already going into the trance.
This same approach can be applied to anything, from getting a girl to go to prom with you to making her break up with another guy to be your girlfriend instead.
If you do this right, you shouldn’t have any trouble pushing her emotional buttons anymore and you will be able to control her emotions from then on out with ease.
This requires using a particular “mind hack” technique – to learn more about this, check out our free manual.
Technique Number Five:
Be Her Knight In Shining Armor
As cheesy as this sounds, every girl secretly wants to find her knight in shining armor – the guy who will sweep her off her feet and take her away from her dull and boring life.
This guy will also be able to protect her from everything, treat her like a queen and listen to all of the things that she has to say – a modern prince charming, so to speak.
In a nutshell, you have to try and be that guy in your dream girl’s eyes.
Naturally, every girl is different though, so they might have different ideas of what this means.
Because of this, you have to make sure you understand what your dream girl really wants. Luckily, for high school girlfriends, this is often something really simple – like being driven home from school every day or having someone to sit with at lunch.
Technique Number Six:
You have to find out what a girl’s boundaries are and respect all of the words that come out of her mouth. If you don’t do this, you won’t just lose her as your girlfriend. She will tell all her friends what a creep you are and you won’t have any hope of getting a girlfriend in high school again!
Fortunately, even just a bit of listening can help you find out what her boundaries are.
Yes, you have to make it a point to listen to what she has to say and actually respond to her sexual concerns by ensuring that you don’t push her too far.
This isn’t to say that boundaries can’t be moved. You just can’t expect them to shift overnight. It seems counterintuitive, but the best way to get a girl’s boundaries to move is to not try to move them at all. This will make her feel comfortable with you and she will be more likely to move things forward.
If you aren’t sure what her boundaries are, then just follow her lead. Or you can try moving a bit forward and gauging her reaction. If she doesn’t respond well, stop what you are doing and don’t try it again until you get cues from her that she is ready!
How To Get A Girlfriend in High School… Using a “Secret” Trick
Unfortunately, emotional addiction can be quite tricky.
Although it can make you extremely happy if you are both on the same level, it can be quite tormenting and painful to only be on the receiving end of it.
So, if you want to avoid significant pain and heartache while trying to learn how to control a girl’s emotions, make sure you get her addicted to you before you fall in love with her yourself.
The easiest and most effective way to get her to like you is to use a rather covert female psychology tactic that sends subliminal messages into a girl’s mind (to make her like you quickly).
Whether you want to win the heart of the girl of dreams, answer your question of how to get a girlfriend in high school, or just have girls flirting with you all the time, you have to check out our free manual.
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