Time is moving very fast; so is our lives and undoubtedly the stress and tensions have surrounded us all. During this course of time, keeping a marriage fresh, bright and exciting has become very challenging for every couple. We all need to work out on it for a gleaming and satisfying relationship with our spouse.
Talking about our dear husbands, several small deeds can be done to make them happy. Love them, care about them and tell them that your feelings for them are growing with every passing day. Check out the following list to learn the ways of making your husband pleased and contented.
Respect is one of the fundamental elements of any relationship. Always show respect to your husband no matter what sort of situation you two are into. Never degrade your husband in front of anyone as his family and friends. There comes the time where you totally freak out, but stay in your limits and do not lose control. Later you can calmly give your piece of mind to him.
Show interest in his likings and hobbies
Showing interest does not mean that you have to get fully involved in his hobbies but do listen and show enthusiasm when he talks about it. Suppose he is a book worm, do buy him a book that he has his eyes on.
Do something to surprise him
Plan a dinner out somewhere or make his favorite dishes at home. You can stop by to the nearest bakery or store to buy his much-loved treat.
Let go of the past
Leave the past mistakes behind. If you had already discussed and forgiven, then just forget it as well. There is no point of bringing it up again and again. This can only complicate things more. Whether he has forgotten your birthday or anniversary or whether once he lied to you about something, when forgiven, then it is over. No need to drag it and taunt about it.
Take care of your husband
Men act like babies when they get ill. Do not get irritated or make fun of them, just take care of them like children; the way they want. Give him your full attention. Timely meal and medicine are very necessary. If due to his illness he is becoming aggressive, give him his space but do not forget to check on him after sometimes.
Trust your husband
Unless he has given you a clear reason of mistrusting him, do give him the benefit of the doubt. You may have a bad experience in your past, but please do not let it spoil your current relationship. Do not check his phone, emails or spy on him when he is out with his friends. Show complete trust in him.
Do not try to change him
Never try to change your husband unless he is into something atrocious like drugs, alcoholism, smoking, etc. He was your choice when you married him then what is the point of changing him now. Let him be what he is.
Make your home a perfect place to live in with your behavior, loyalty, compromises and respect. Moreover, your house must be cleaned and inviting when he arrives at home in the evening. There are much more you can do to make your husband happy and at ease by doing what he wants from you, what he likes and what he wishes to have.