So, you decided to go on a date and hopefully to be a new relationship if you have met your potential partner. But, you are always wondering, how you would know if he or she is the person you wanted to have a relationship. Well, a lot of elements are involved, if a relationship needs to last and advance. But the first things are pretty basic, simple and fun stuff. Things like, “Are they attracted to you?”, or “Do you like to talk with them?”, “Do they like the same things I like?”
But, when you are thinking of choosing the right partner for you, then you have to dig a little deeper. So, here are three things that you ask yourself about your potential spouse.
How does this person make me feel?
Falling in love is a beautiful feeling, and you feel lucky to be with your partner. Just the feeling that someone likes you is very exciting and intoxicating. But, the person you’re dating might not have the same feelings towards you. People’s emotions are hard to understand, they make you feel happy, smart, confident, but the real motives get exposed after you have dated the person for a while. He or she might not be that into, and they will always find excuses to avoid you or not to spend time with you. If you feel that he or she isn’t interested in you anymore and you seem to be unhappy being with them, then this person isn’t making you feel good about yourself. In this situation, instead of trying their approval, the best thing you can do it break up or end the relationship.
How does the person you’re dating treat other people?
When people start to date or if a relationship is in its early days, people try to bring their A game — they talk nice, they listen attentively, compliment you all the time and make you feel important. Besides, all check out how your new date treats other people like the taxi driver, the waiter, or the cashier or your friends. See if the person pleasant or stubborn or if he or she has good etiquettes. In short, find out if the person is genuinely a respectful and a kind person or if they are just pretending to be good, so will like them.
Do You Think This Peron is Trustworthy?
This question is hard to explain. Whether a person is trustworthy or not can't be answered just by looking into his or her habits or how they live their lives. It’s all about instincts. Don’t doubt your intuition and if your guts say that you can trust this person, then go for it.
So, that’s it, the three things that you need to ask yourself about your potential partner. It’s ok to criticize if all these sounds pretty basic, but in our culture where we have gotten habituated to evaluate a person by his or her physical looks, career, money, and family name— we care less about simple qualities like kindness and respect. But, it’s these qualities that matter the most in a relationship.