Do you know, when someone cheats, there is always some visible signs at the beginning? But, how can you identify those signs? How can you be sure that the person you’ve been dating isn’t cheating on you? Well, there are no simple answers. If you have been dating someone for five or six months or even longer, it’s pretty safe to tell that you know that person good enough.
Judging by the personalities, you can have a sense that if you can trust his person or not. The Sad story is, most people still continue with their relationships even after they suspect them cheating on them.
So, to be sure, look out for these particular traits, trust your instincts, and end the relationship soon, and protect yourself from getting emotionally burned.
Your Partner has a history of Cheating
A simple way to find if your partner will cheat on you or not in this relationship is to see if he or she has cheated in the past in a previous relationship. You won't find this at the beginning, but the information will eventually come out. Some people have cheated in the past but regretted and won’t do it again, but some individuals will do it again if they have been unfaithful in the past. So, before you decide to take your relationship any further, both of you should have a serious conversation about it, if your new date of partner has a similar story.
Your Partner Flirts With Other People, Even In Front of You!
This is very common found in most couples, and millions of men and women do it. There is little harm if your partner checks out other attractive men and women outside, but if he or she flirts with people in front you, then we have a problem. This proves that this individual wants attention, and there is the high probability that this person will take their flirting to fully fledged sexual contact if you are absent in the scene. To have a monogamous long-term relationship, it’s a must that you ask your partner not to flirt with anyone in front of one another. If you partner found hard to honor that rule, it’s time that you terminate the relationship soon.
You Partner Is Unavailable For Hours or Unreachable By Phone
If you notice your new partner or date often disappears during the day or evening without any reason, and is unreachable for hours, it’s an indication that he or she might be cheating. There is no problem someone can’t be reached for an hour or two, as that person might be shopping or at the gym. But if an individual can’t be contacted for a few hours, particularly at night, it points that he or she is cheating. Have a conversation with your new date and frankly tell him or her that their sudden absence makes you insecure and anxious. However, keep in mind, even after the conversation this type of behaviors doesn’t stop, then it’s time to consider leaving this relationship.
It’s advised that if you think that your new date or partner is cheating, be sure that your suspicions are based on real facts, not paranoia. Most people don’t want to believe that their new partners are cheating, but if your intuition tells you, then probably there is something wrong. If you sense that a new person you’re dating is cheating on you, end the relationship soon before you go deeper.