Have you been sitting home hopeless about ever finding a partner? Are you depressed that you are left alone while all of your friends are in relationships? Are you sad because you see that no one is happy with their relationships and no one believes in the concept of a soulmate? Feelings such as hopelessness, anxiety and sadness create negative energy inside of you and destroy the enthusiasm required to attract a happy, exciting relationship.
Keep in mind that your happiness is your responsibility and no one is dedicated to making you happy. You might think that you will only be happy if you have met your soulmate. So does that mean that you have to remain unhappy and depressed until you meet the person who will make you happy? Of course not! Positive feelings such as excitement, self-worth, confidence, fun, and joy need to be created by you. This will make you more attractive and bring attention to you. Feelings of hopelessness, loneliness, powerlessness, neediness, sadness, and anxiety will send the message to other people that you need a caretaker, not a romantic partner or a soulmate.
Below are three steps that will shift your attitude and help you reach the level of happiness and fulfillment that will attract your soulmate:
1. Take a good look at yourself in the mirror.
Do you see yourself as attractive? Do you like the way you look? Do you like your posture? Do you like the way you talk or smile? Do you feel comfortable and confident in the way you dress? Do you think the people you meet are attracted to you? If the answer to most or all of these is “no”, then make the necessary changes that you think will make you more attractive.
2. See what you are really doing.
Keep tabs on yourself about your day-to-day activities at home and work. Now ask yourself: do you like how you sound and look throughout the day while doing your duties and maintaining different relationships? If you like the look and the actions, stick with it. If there’s something you don’t like, then change it.
3. Attitude is essential.
Think about what kind of behaviors and attitudes you would like to see in your soulmate. Make a list and begin following it yourself on a daily basis.
If you become more approving of yourself, you will find yourself basking in laughter, joy, excitement, self-esteem, confidence and self-worth. It will make you happy and make people want to be around you more. Eventually, you will meet a woman who likes your attitude and behaviors. Remember, a soulmate is a person who is compatible with you in many ways. So let go off all the negativity, and live as your true self and be confident about who you are. Don’t fuss over things in your body and life that you don’t like. Remember, we all have flaws and no one is perfect. So, make yourself attractive for yourself. It will attract a woman who also has those attitudes, attributes, and behaviors.