Most average guys assume that they will need to pursue and woo great ladies to date them. But, it shouldn’t be the case always. If you can master how to trigger feelings of love, interest, and attraction in women, you’ll see great women will see you as a potential match and start chasing you.
So, how can you do that? Here are four ways:
1. Quit Courting, Start Attracting.
When it comes to approaching women, most men follow these two models. One, “the courtship model,” and, two, “the attraction model.” Whenever you court a woman, it’s natural for her to run away from you. So, instead of focusing on what you can do to woo her, invest your energy on igniting her attraction. Courting is primarily about what you do and can offer such as dinners, gifts, flowers, etc. Meanwhile, attraction is all about how you can communicate, how you can connect with someone, who you are, what’s your personality, and your masculine identity. Attraction is the challenge, while courting is facing the challenge. So, focus your energy on attracting, and realize for yourself how it can make your successful in dating women you’re interested in.
2. Apply “Reverse Rapport.”
The term “reverse rapport” refers to the concept that you say and do the opposite what most men would do to make a woman like him. But, you should do it in playful, flirty and sarcastic manner. It’s an approach that assumes that the woman already knows, him, trusts him and even likes him. So, how can this be done? Well, one way is saying a funny comment which is the opposite of what a lady prefers to hear. This way, you can create an intense, polarity-charged connection with her, that will entice her pursue you.
3. Don’t Wait To Seek Her Approval.
When it comes to dating and relationship, men are taught that if they like someone, and would like to date her, he needs to seek approval for her. Women will lead, and men will follow. The truth is she has no desire to lead. It’s the guys who are convincing her to lead by bombarding with questions, cues, and body language that all directs in seeking approval. Rather, hold your ground, even after she’s been running all over the place. Show her you’re the kind of guy who likes to steer his ship. Having said that she’s will start feeling an incredible attraction towards you.
4. Show Her That You Are Neither Needy Nor Desperate. Convince Her That You Are Indeed Different.
Let’s be honest about one thing. There are hundreds and thousands of single, desperate and needy men out there looking for a relationship. If you really want to stay ahead of the competition, it’s important that you for you to prove and communicate that through your qualities and behavior, and convince the woman you’re interested that you aren’t one of them. Show her you’re, indeed, unique and extraordinary. And the best way to demonstrate that to a woman is to make her believe that you have a life, and you don’t need a girlfriend or be in relationship to be happy.
These four tips will show a woman you’re an interesting and confident man who don’t need a woman approval to feel good about his life or himself.