It’s been a while that you’ve suspected something is not right with your husband’s behavior lately, but now its appears that your suspicions are correct after all. You husband has been cheating on you. We stay in a world where we always have to meet and socialize with new people, and unknowingly, we might get involved in an affair. This can be a huge blow to our relationships and our marriages, some of which can lead to a breakup.
Below are five signs that may indicate that your husband may be having an affair:
Noticeable Changes In Appearance
If you think your husband is cheating, you will notice a drastic change in his looks and appearance. You will see your partner dressed differently than usual when going for work, has a new haircut, or putting on a new cologne, and even going to the gym a lot. All this points that he’s trying to impress a new lady or a coworker. This is all too common for people who are having affairs as they want to look good and confident for their new significant other. So, if you see your husband, who has been couch-potato all day, suddenly looking dapper, now you know, he isn’t doing it for you.
There Is A Dramatic Change in Attitude Towards You
If your husband is unfaithful with you, he will give out excuses like he is very stressed out or exhausted, when you ask him to spend some time with you. People who are having affairs feel guilty about it, so they avoid having any thoughtful discussions that will make him or her suspicious of them being unfaithful. Gradually, you will see him ill-tempered most of the time and his attitude towards you will change dramatically. Your partner will certainly start arguing and not be entirely honest with you if your start asking him whether he is having an affair. For instance, if you start to ask your husband about it, he will probably reply, “Shut up,” or “I’m not cheating, why would I.”
He Has More or Less Sex
This is a little tricky. It can mean your husband isn’t interested in having sex with you anymore or he satisfies his sexual needs with the other woman. It’s also been reported some men become more active sexually if they are having an affair and has more sex with their wives. So, check out for that.
You Find Your Husband Hard To Reach
If you find husband's phone is switched off or busy or gives all kind of excuses for coming home late or going to work soon, it is an indication that he’s trying to avoid you. It appears that your husband is never around when you see him, or just spend time with him. It can be that your partner is spending too much time with the other lady, that he’s tired to do the same with you. All these can be indicating that he might be having an affair.
Trust Your Intuition
If you discover that your husband is behaving or talking differently, or hiding something, then trust your instincts that something is wrong. Your intuition will help you find out if your husband is involved with another lady or not. But, if you have a history of being paranoid, then you can be wrong, and the result can devastate you badly – physically, mentally and emotionally.
There are many upsetting reports which claim how infidelity has helped couples to mend their marriages or improve their relationships but remember that once trust is broken, it's very hard to fix. The truth is the mental and emotional toll are so painful; most people tend to stay in the relationship instead of breaking apart.