When it comes to dating and relationships, all the rules are unwritten. Then there are some rules in relationships that are so apparent that they don’t require any explanation. But, we will explain them anyway because there are some who are simply clueless about dating etiquettes.
Certain things are meant to be said to a woman such how many men they slept with or anything about their weight. Here are five things you should never say to women unless you really want to piss them off:
1. How many men have you slept with?
She didn’t ask you how many women you’ve been or slept with, so it’s only logical that you too should never ask her how many guys she had sex with. Why you should you ask this question is simple – it's better if you didn't know. It doesn’t matter if the digit is high or low, or somewhere in between. You’ll gain nothing from knowing how many men she was sexually involved. The sole thing it will do is the way you feel and think about her. If the number is large, you’ll think she’s promiscuous, and if the number is too small, you’ll assume something is not right with her. Instead, consider asking her about how many long-term, committed relationships she’s been with.
2. Was sex good for you?
As if questions can get any worse. First, it was how many men have you slept with; now you’re enquiring whether she enjoyed having sex or was the sex good enough for her. You could use one of the worse lovers, and if the woman you’ve been dating and having sex with truly loves you, she’ll lie and tell you that you’re the best lover she ever met. She won’t fake orgasms, moans or groans; she’ll lie with words. So, don’t ask it.
3. Are you gaining weight?
You barely need any explanation for this one. If your girlfriend put on weight, she’s probably well aware of that herself. Gaining weight is nothing to be happy about it, and the last thing she needs to listen is her boyfriend pointing it out. If you think your gal has gained some weight, then your ultimate plan for her is to motivate her to eat better, be active and exercise.
4. Do you want to come back to my place?
You had a great date and the night is wrapping up. You aren’t in the mood to make any assumptions, so you drop the question, asking her if she wants to come over at your place. Sure, she really wants to visit your place assuming she had an incredible date, but phrasing the question in this way makes her think that you want to have sex with her. This puts her on the spot and doesn’t allow her to make a counter offer like asking you to go to her home. Instead, tell her that you don’t want the night to end here.
5. You look awful in that dress!
While dating someone, men will always joke or complain about the amount of time a woman needs to get ready. The truth is that it’s not that she’s doing it deliberately. You see looking good takes time and women spend a good amount of time to prepare from picking out the right dress or clothes and shoes to the color of her hair and nails. Despite all these telling her she looks bad in an outfit shows that you're inconsiderate and disrespectful. Instead, say that you don’t like that dress or outfit she’s wearing. It’s best to blame the outfit and not the person.