So your relationship ended. These things happen, and sometimes they're for the best. However, some relationships are not meant to end. If you're going through a breakup and feel like it was a mistake, you may want to reunite with your ex. Before you can even begin to think of reuniting, you need to make sure that your ex also wants to get back together. For your ex to reunite with you, they need to first miss you. How can you make sure that your ex misses your relationship?
Here are six ways to make your ex miss you like crazy:
1. Cut Off Contact
The first step after any breakup is to cut off all contact. You need to delete their phone number. Remove them from your social media. If you're constantly calling or texting your ex, it doesn't even give them an opportunity to miss you. In fact, contacting them all the time will only make them glad to be away from you. In order for your ex to miss you, you need to remove yourself from their life. Once they haven;t heard from you in a long time, they'll realize that they miss talking to you.
2. Let Time Pass
After a breakup, you need to take some time to recover. The amount of time differs depending on how long the relationship was. Experts recommend that you need at least 3 weeks to a month to start recovering after a breakup. Take the appropriate time to grieve the end of your relationship. By not contacting your ex, you are also giving them the appropriate amount of time to grieve the end of the relationship. During this time, don't go crazy trying to reach out to your ex. Don't go to places where you might see them. This time is reserved for being completely apart. It will definitely be hard, but in the long run it will help to make your ex miss you.
3. Don't Show You're Sad
Obviously you will be sad after a breakup, but don't make your sadness public. The designated time period after a breakup is the time for sadness. Stay home, listen to sad songs or watch sad movies. Take the time for yourself, and keep it to yourself. You might be compelled to post sappy song lyrics on your social media or make cryptic posts about how your relationship ended. Do not do this. You can share your sadness with a close friend or family member, but don't broadcast it for the world. Letting everyone see how sad you are will embarrass you and will not make your ex miss you at all.
4. Have Fun
In order to make your ex miss you like crazy, you need to starting having a lot of fun. After you've spend the appropriate time in mourning, you'll feel better to start going out and having fun. Go out with your friends. Spend time with your family. Pick up interesting new hobbies. Go on a vacation. Doing fun things will not only keep your mind off the end of your relationship, it will also show your ex that you are doing just fine. If your ex sees how much fun you are having without them will make them crazy with jealousy and also see how much they miss you.
5. Live Your Life
After your breakup, you need to move on with your life. It may be difficult, but it is for the best. It will also help with your goal of making your ex miss you like crazy. Once they see that you are living your life without them, they'll see that maybe they made a mistake. Focus on schoolwork or things at your job. Make new friends. Go sightseeing. Continue living life without your ex and it will show them that you are strong and independent. This will only make you more desirable and make your ex miss you more than ever.
6. Create a Friendship
Once a long time has passed with no contact, you'll want to initiate contact with your ex again. You don't want to be too serious or let them know that you want them back. Keep it friendly. Make plans to do something casual like go out to lunch or to a park. Spending time with you as a friend will remind your ex of all the things they loved about you. After you've established a good friendship, you will be comfortable to approach the idea of reuniting with your ex.