Most men would love to have women lusting after them. However, this is not always easy to accomplish. Unless you're Ryan Gosling, I doubt women are chasing after you or competing for your attention. While you may not be what every woman desires, there are some things you can do to get a girl that you're interested to start vying for your affections.
Here are eight tips to make a girl chase you:
1. Be Friendly
Just as a decent human being you should always be friendly. Not only is being friendly the right thing to do, it will also get the girl you like to chase you. Women want to be treated well. They want someone who will be kind and compassionate. So the first thing you should do to get on a girl's radar is to be a friendly person. It will be a good quality that immediately gets her attention.
2. Make Her Laugh
It's a pretty well-known fact that women love funny guys. Making a woman laugh is an excellent way to make her chase you, because a sense of humor automatically makes you more attractive. Even if you aren't a Jared Leto or Zac Efron, (which, let's face it, you probably aren't), making a girl laugh will make you so much more attractive that she'll overlook the fact you aren't a gorgeous movie star.
3. Give Her Space
If you really want a woman to chase you, you need to give her the space to do so. This means not being around her all the time and not contacting her constantly. You need to give her some time away from you to see how much she misses your company. Once she's had time away from you, she'll realize how much she likes being around you.
4. Drop Hints
A girl is not going to chase you if she sees no hint that you're interested in her. She's not going to waste her time on someone she doesn't see a chance with. You don't want to blatantly let her know that you're interested, but drop some small hints that you do like her. When you are around her, you can flirt with her a little or compliment her. You can also use social media to your advantage to drop hints. You can “like” a photo of her or one of her posts. It will let her know that you are interested to some extent.
5. Have a Great Personality
This one goes without saying…but I'm going to say it anyways. You To get a girl to chase you, you need to have a great personality. Girls hate guys who are downers! If you're mean and miserable all the time, she definitely won't want to be around you. You need to be upbeat and fun. She wants to be with someone who's the life of the party, not someone who's a pity-party.
6. Play Hard to Get
If you want a girl to chase you, play hard to get. This will only make you more desirable. If you're readily available to her at all times, she'll lose interest in you. She needs to see you as a real catch, as something worth chasing. If you just immediately give in to her, what does she even need to chase?
7. Don't Act Desperate
This is a very important thing to remember: never act desperate. Women loathe men who are desperate. Do not call her or text her incessantly. Do not act frantic if she doesn't respond to you right away. Act like you don't need her attention. Let her think that other women are competing for your attention (even if they aren't). This will make her see that you're not desperate for anyone's affection and if she wants to be with you, she needs to chase after you.
8. Be Mysterious
It's a tale as old as time: girl falls in love with the bad boy. You don't have to actually be a “bad boy”, but keep her wondering. Don't show her every aspect of who you are. Keep some parts of your life mysterious. This will drive her crazy with curiosity. She'll see you as an elusive, mysterious “bad boy”, and only want you more than ever. To keep the air of mystery, you need to be vague when answering her or giving her details about your life. Before you know it, this girl will be chasing after you.