When it comes to choosing someone for a relationship, we all have our own list of “can’t stands” and “must haves.” These qualities allow men and women to date a guy or a girl with behavior and traits that they think are important to be in a healthy and long-term relationship. Here we have listed nine types of guys that women simply cannot stand:
1. Mr. Liar, Liar
This is the biggest turn-off for all women. Nobody likes to date or even be with someone with a reputation for lying. Honesty and trust are the bedrock of a secure, successful and long-lasting relationship. Lying is the opposite of all these good traits, and women cannot stand when guys lie to them. This is the number one deal breaker, so, unless you badly want to destroy your relationship or marriage, think twice before you consider being deceitful!
2. Mr. Mean
Another main deal breaker for men looking for a girlfriend is being mean. Being rude, belittling other people, being prejudiced or simply being hateful to others is just a major turn-off for the ladies. Period.
3. Mr. Opportunist
Another “can't stand” when it comes to a man’s personality is the opportunist. It’s very unattractive to most women when their boyfriend uses or takes advantage of or manipulates others for his selfish reasons. Women are looking for a man who is honest, direct, respectful and straightforward with others.
4. Mr. Lazy Bones
Life is too short to spend it lying on the couch watching TV all day, or sleeping the whole day away. Women are looking for someone with ambition, drive, energy and passion.
5. Mr. Hot Head
Angry guys are toxic. Women can't stand a man who shouts, screams and can’t control his temper or anger. If there is something that is bothering you, handle it in a gentle and mature way. Don’t just shut it inside of you until it’s too late to have a calm and decent conversation.
6. Mr. Slob
Just like women, men love to come home to a house that is neat and tidy. Women also love when guys put effort to keep their homes and themselves clean and take pride in it.
7. Mr. Devious
Similar to Mr. Hot Head, this refers to the kind of guy who will send the gals running for the hills. Nobody has that much time for negative energy and drama.
8. Mr. Flake
This is the type of guy who promises you a lot of things but fails or forgets to deliver. He knows that he won’t be able to honor all of his pledges, but he still makes promises so that he can have a relationship with her. It’s sneaky and creepy. Women love men who are reliable, stable, consistent, and steady. Being flaky and unreliable is a huge deal breaker.
9. Mr. Unfaithful
Infidelity is one of the most unfortunate things to happen in a relationship. Cheating on your girlfriend or boyfriend can end your relationship. It’s also one of the primary reasons for divorces. Infidelity can cause tremendous emotional pain that takes a long time to heal from. Needless to say, most women will not date someone who has a history of cheating.