When it comes to relationships most women will tell their partners exactly what they want – both physically and emotionally. Women want to be desired physically and respected emotionally. However, for women who don't explicitly tell their partners this, they are often left wanting. While men want to fulfill their girlfriend or wife's desires, they often don't know what those are unless they're told. Not knowing what women want can lead to men making huge mistakes in their relationship and hurting their partner.
It's normal for men who appreciate and respect women to want to please them. However, it's often difficult for men to figure out exactly what it is their partner wants or needs. Men tend to be primal and animalistic. They take what they want and make it very clear how they feel. Women tend to be more calculated and will often keep their feelings to themselves. This leads to confusion in a relationship. In order for men to understand what women want, a balance of physical and verbal communication must be established between the partners.
With a lot of understanding, loving and caring, men can begin to understand what women want in a relationship. Obviously it's easier said that done. Building a healthy relationship takes a lot of work. To create a successful relationship, take it slowly. Work on your physical and emotional connection. Work on your communication. If a woman is not blatantly telling her partner what she wants, he may want to ask. Men often neglect the importance of verbal communication. It never hurts to ask the woman in your life what she needs or wants out of the relationship.
By no means are we criticizing or questioning how women communicate their needs. We are only saying that it's almost impossible for men to figure these needs out without being told. It's challenging for men to actually understand where women are coming from and what they desire. While many women need to start voicing their desires more, many men need to start asking women what their desires are. It will take work on both parts. With a lot of time, patience and effort, men can begin to understand what it is that women want.