Being an introvert is not being crazy or weird. But, this is what is mostly thought by extroverts. It is what you need to understand and get used to listening too.
Most people believe them to be as introverts because they like watching movies, reading books and are interested in staying indoors all the time. However, the real introverts have a complete personality which not so many people get to know about it.
Who is an introvert?
An introvert is someone who finds their complete happiness in being alone. They are believed to be antisocial and shy people who avoid being at crowded places. They are the individuals who are drained out when they have to face large assemblies, and they get their energy from being alone. Usually, such people are more interested in involving themselves in any creative work.
Things to know before dating introvert
Introverts are quite confusing, and it sounds tough to date someone who remains distant from other people. However, what I believe dating a person who is introvert can be very gratifying.
Here are a few things that you should know about introverts before dating them:
Introverts NEED time alone
Introverts need to stay alone all by themselves to refuel their energies. They cannot stay all day long with people around them. You might want to stay with them the entire day, but they might not be showing any interest in it. Well, it is very irritating sometimes, but you need to understand them and respect their need.
No, introverts are not upset
Introverts prefer leaving the party early. It is just because their quota of handling people is over. So, stop thinking that they are upset or mad at something.
Introverts are not shy
People believe that introverts are shy. However, they enjoy talking to people. It is just that they cannot handle the crowd all at once and then they prefer shutting down and do not speak much, which makes them look pretty shy.
Springing things on the last minute
Introverts like planning out things for themselves which can be as simple as spending their night watching their favorite movie or reading a good book. So jumping onto them with a plan of a night out at the very last minute will surround them with anxiety and most likely they will refuse you.
Introverts are the Best listeners
Introverts are too good when it comes to listening. They will listen to your thoughts very thoroughly, so be very careful while telling them the details. You cannot bluff them easily. Moreover, you will always find them around in every problem of yours.
Introverts do get frustrated at being introverts themselves
If sometimes you find them annoyed or frustrated without any reasons then don’t worry they are just annoyed with themselves. They sometimes become sick of being an introvert. They WANT to attend parties; they WANT to be introduced to your friends and enjoy the gathering, but they can’t help it. They can do this up to a certain limit, and after that, they have to set them apart from everyone.