Being in a happy relationship with the “one “doesn’t always mean that you both will get married blissfully. We all want to be in a healthy marriage, but how do you establish a healthy and long-lasting from the very start?
When it comes to dating, most men and women try way too hard to impress their dates. Dating is meant to be fun and an enjoyable experience, rather than work. But, we can tell the same for marriages. Marriages are work, and you’ve to dedicate your time and energy to make it work. If dating is too much work, or if you’re trying to change the person you’re dating, then keep in mind that things will get harder when you get married. You’ll be unhappy, or your marriage can end if the person you married isn’t the right man or woman to be spending the rest of your life with.
So, what’s the advice here? For starters, take good care of yourself, and travel without your partner. Many of us tend to lose our identities, and forget who we really are in a relationship. So, don’t lose your identity or your personality. The happiest couples are those who make time and effort to pursue their own interests and friends outside of marriage. They also took care of their own well-being and sometimes spent some time apart from each to reflect how and why they got together in the first place.
Another good advice while in a relationship is not to have a meaningful conversation while being angry.
It’s the best marriage advice out there. But, most people say that if you have an argument, do go to bed until you resolve. But there is much better advice. Do go to sleep angry. Take an Ambien, go to bed, wake up fully rested, drink a cup of coffee, and then having a rational conversation when your mind is calm and clear.
If you’re a strong-willed, intellectually-minded, and an independent woman, and want a healthy marriage, think of your husband as a member of the team. Make him your partner, rather than your competitor. We understand when you were single you were so used to making those decisions by yourself. But, when you’re married or hoping to get married, always make important decisions together.
So, now that we have talked about various suggestions on how to have a blissful marriage, and make your marriage last, what about some tips on how to discover the right man or woman? Most people say that you’ll meet your soulmate when you’re least looking for it, which is like a lightning bolt that strikes you when you meet the right person. Time has nothing to do with it. You can even find your soul mate at high school. Some say, if you’ve met someone new, and you felt an instant chemistry, you’ve met the right person. So far, it’s a myth. It’s the emotional connection, rather than physical attraction or intimacy. After a few dates with the person you like, if you start to feel that something is missing more than the person you’re dating, then maybe your heart is not in the right place.