While growing up at some point, we all have been told that there’s someone out there who will be our life partner, or we will find our “soul mate” with whom we will spend the rest of our lives. All through our lives, we have always been told that sooner or later, we will meet our soul mates who are waiting for us. Many of us are so focused on finding love and finding the “the one” that we don’t make the time and the effort to learn about ourselves and to love ourselves. Take a moment and ask yourself how can you possibly love someone else if you don’t know yourself and love yourself?
There are many reasons why relationships fail, and all those folks who have unsuccessful in their previous relationships need to read this article. Here we have explained people who have failed in their relationships and those looking for a new relationship get wrong about love or being in love.
- Your self-worth depends on someone else
While looking for love you should never seek your self-worth by depending on someone else. No person has the qualification to determine your worth. The only person who can measure your self-worth is none other than you. If you leave your worth in the hands of someone else, you are setting up for a disappointment and failure.
- Love conquers all
Well, it doesn’t. If you want love to conquer everything, you will need work and effort from you and your partner. All throughout our lives, we are in the cycle of constant change and evolvement. This means that whoever you are romantically involved should not only adapt to those changes, but he or she should also accept them. But, there isn’t any guarantee. There are no guarantees in life and relationships. All you really have to do is be yourself and do all you can to know and love your partner.
- You don't have to work for love
If someone tells you that love is enough for him, he’s probably lying or misinformed. Love and relationships require constant work and effort. If you want to have a happy, healthy and long-lasting relationship, you and your partner have to work for it. There isn’t any shortcut for love. No one is entitled to love and happiness in this world. If you want anything you want or desire, you will have to work for it. There is nothing like, “they live happily ever after” in relationships in this life. Sometimes things always don’t go according to our expectations, and if something goes wrong, you have to work on it. Without investing your time and effort, there is little chance that your relationship will succeed in the long run.
- Your soul mate is out there waiting for you
Do you seriously believe that there is a woman out there in the world waiting for you? If you say, “yes,” then good luck in finding her. While looking for a partner, most people are so much focused on seeking for “the one” that they entirely miss out on realistic opportunities for love, relationships, and finding happiness. So, stop wasting your time and energy while searching for the love of your life. Put your trust in the process and go with the flow.