One of the biggest challenges most men face while dating women is to know the correct art of approaching women. But, that’s not the actual problem. The real issue is that apparently, most guys don’t put any serious thoughts into how to have a conversation with women until they actually talk to someone they admire – secretly. When that moment arrives, they usually freeze and start stammering. And, even if they finally manage to talk, they can’t be fully sure if they’ll be able to keep the conversation going.
So, if you’re someone having a hard time striking up a meaningful and thoughtful conversation with the ladies, then this article is for you. Here are some tips on how to talk to women easily without looking like an idiot.
Focus On Her
Don’t let your fears of rejection or the anxieties of approaching a woman stop you from having a conversation with her. If you say, “Hi” or “Hello,” and they don’t respond to it, don’t turn it up on yourself. It’s probably about them because maybe they aren’t in the mood to talk to someone, or they’re probably waiting for someone else. It can also be that they’re intimidated talking to strangers or their own insecurities have engulfed them. Also, remember not pay too much attention to what you’ll say next since that might cause misunderstandings between you and her. She might assume that you’re paying full focus on her, which is offensive.
Ask Open-Ended Questions
Avoid asking questions which have a simple answer like a yes or no. Instead ask open ended questions that start with what, where, when, how and why. Ask questions that will help you to get to know her better information about her thoughts, feelings, and opinions. We suggest that before you go out on the first date, make a list of interesting things that you and your date will be excited or interested in discussing topics such as music, politics, movies, hobbies, current events, etc. Besides, asking open-ended questions, talk about something or somebody else or about the place where you both are. There might be someone who is wearing something weird someone behaving rudely. Stir up the conversation by talking about the events occurring around you, particular if the woman on the side of the table reacts to them. Also, women like who can make them laugh. So, bring out your sense of humor by telling some unique and funny stories to make her laugh.
Be Who You Are – Always
This might seem surprising to you, but most women commonly understand a man’s body language faster than what is that they’re trying to say. This means that if you’re looking for a girlfriend and your only purpose to talk to a woman is to get her phone number to ask her on a date, she’ll surely and immediately understand it before she responds to what you have said. And most women will not be very fond or interested in you if they know your true intentions. So, if you want to get her phone number, you need to talk to her for 3, 4, 5 minutes or more, and build a connection between you and her first.
So, if you’re looking for a girlfriend, I hope after reading this you’ll find it easier to talk to women, and establish a connection with them and even attract more beautiful ones.