When a guy goes on a first date with a woman, these are the two questions that are being asked the most. First question, “how does he know whether he has a chance with her?” Second question, “if he thinks like he does have a chance with her, what should be his next step?” It’s only one fact that arises all of this uncertainty. When a man gets even the slightest hint that a woman he’s dating might be interested in him, he often starts doing things that aren’t expected at all. His mind starts to play all sorts of games with him, he misinterprets cues, and he jumps to conclusions immediately.
Most relationship experts suggest in these circumstances men should do everything to stop guessing and doubting themselves when they find a woman might be interested. Instead, they should start looking for the big signs that might indicate that they truly have a shot to be in a relationship with her.
After having a conversation with your date for an hour or so, ask yourself, “Is she genuinely receptive, friendly toward me?” For most guys, this may sound deceptively obvious. But guess what? When it comes to issues regarding dating and relationships rituals, it’s thoughts like these the kills the chances of most guys to be successful in landing a girlfriend. You see, most men still assume that women show certain physical behaviors such as smiling while talking with you, twirling their hair, or tilting their heads to the side, when they feel attracted to a guy. But, this isn’t always true.
The truth is these kinds of body language or behaviors can be mean or directed to something else that can range from meaningless to utterly ridiculous. These behaviors have nothing to do your chances of taking things to the next and hopefully more meaningful level. These behaviors can be labeled as merely “flirting”, and any woman can do it who is nice and only wants to be polite with you. Therefore, stop looking for these physical behaviors to deciding your chances of having a more meaningful, long-lasting relationship with a woman. Instead, focus on the larger picture. Don’t make any judgments and conclusions about “how things are going” after having the conversation with a woman.
Now, pause and look for these signs to determine whether she’s behaving genuinely friendly and receptive towards you:
Does she takes the initiative or takes the lead in the conversation? Does she interrupt you when you’re speaking to her? If she does it most of the time, it’s an indication that she’s either bored with you or too self-absorbed with herself. And, when you talk to her does she maintain eye contact with you? If she’s always looking at the phone or looking around the room or the restaurant, it means that she has lost her interest in the date, so it’s time that you wrap this up politely and say goodnight. And now for the final part, does she try to be insightful during the conversation? If you find her asking sincere, appropriate and insightful questions and giving meaningful feedback about the things that you’ve said, then you’ve found a keeper!
When you’re dating someone you like and have doubts whether the girl you’re dating likes you or not, remember there is someone no woman can fake. It doesn’t matter if she smiles and twirls her hair if she can’t interact with your in a genuine and meaning ways that we mentioned earlier we can safely tell that you don’t have a chance with her.