Let’s face it when it comes to dating, physical appearance matters. That is one reality of dating that will never change. Though we can all agree that people should put less emphasis on appearance, and more importance on their partner’s personality, qualities and other characteristics, it makes reasonable sense. When you’re looking for a girlfriend, you’ll find that people have preferences. We feel attracted to women we like, and for most men and women, it’s difficult to develop an attraction to someone who isn’t physically available.
There are many reasons why men and women refuse dates with others. For instance, they don’t like fat or overweight people, some won’t date too tall people, they won’t date someone who’s skinny or bald, and some people even rejected their matches because they walk funny. Anyways, you get the point. Some women rejected men because they’re short. Guys, who are short, might take this as skewed or in a mean-spirited. On the other hand, women should be allowed to date men they feel physically attracted to. We would encourage dating short men even if they don’t like short guys, and see what happens. After all, rejecting short guys isn’t the worse thing women do, while looking for a relationship.
When setting up your online dating profile, it’s imperative and a wise decision on your part to include your height alongside other physical characteristics. This way you matches can get to see and know about you in every way so that they won’t have any problems with your profile later. In the ideal world, most people care less if you’re tall or short, skinny or fat. But, you’ve to accept the harsh reality that there are men and women, who will refuse to date you simply because you’re skinny or short or fat. Let’s talk about an example; say you didn’t include in your dating profile that you’re short, overweight, extremely tall, etc. Now, you go out on a date with a woman, who doesn’t want to date short guys. She has no idea that you’re short by her standards because you didn’t mention that in your profile. Now that she has seen you in person, were you able to hide that fact? Did you tell yourself it doesn’t matter?
The reality is the woman with whom you’re on a date now has no interest in having a second date with you. Because you didn’t get the correct fact that you’re short and she doesn’t want to have a relationship with someone who is short. So, you’ve wasted all that time emotionally anticipating the date, preparing yourself for the date, showing up on the actual date, and traveling to and from the place, and eventually ending up with nothing. In the meantime, you could have saved yourself a lot of time and effort, if only you’ve mentioned your real height in your dating profile.
The bottom line, while looking for a woman, doesn’t ever apologize or feel sorry for your physical trait or traits. But, also bear in mind that you’ll save yourself a lot of time, effort and from the emotional distress by letting everyone know what you really look like before going on a date.