Well, all of us do have bad habits. Nobody is perfect. Some of the habits are quite irritating; some are cute. When you are attracted to someone, in the start of a relationship you do not realize or take a serious notice of the bad habits that your partner possesses. And same goes out to your partner as well. But once the infatuation period is over and you step into the next stage, these bad habits start becoming prominent. And this is the point from where the differences start developing which may lead to frustrations, arguments or even breakups.
So, have you ever analyzed yourself? Are you subconsciously hurting your partner and disturbing your relationship and you won’t even realize it? Well, it's hard to accept flaws in yourself, and not all the habits can worsen your relationship to the level where you are parted but still there are a few which if not properly been look at and taken care of will give way to the serious and critical differences.
If you are into any of the following bad habits, then you must keep an eye on them because these habits will take you to the point of minor disputes and then becomes the biggest reasons of break up.
Taking your partner for granted
You know your partner loves you and takes care of you. But do you always appreciate what he/she does for you? Sometimes we find it silly to constantly being thankful to our partner and there comes a time when we start taking our partner’s small sweet loving gestures for granted without even realizing it ourselves. When the care and affection showered is not being acknowledged then this will definitely going to hurt our partner.
Testing your partner
Usually in the start of the relationship you intentionally throw big demands and tantrums just to know how much your partner cares and loves you. These are the testers in the starting of the relationship. Do not drag them along to the later stages as it will start to annoy your partner.
Stop blames game
Do not put all the blame on your partner each time when you know that you are also a part of it. It will leave your partner helpless and hurt.
Do not ignore your partner. Let your partner know that you are hurt. Sit and talk rather than piling up things inside you. It will only make you miserable which in turn severely affects your relationship.
Having higher expectations from your partner and giving them less in response is no way to continue a relationship. Your partner needs the same response of love that you expect. Maintain balance otherwise; it will spoil your relationship.
Making a scene in public
Never humiliate your partner in a gathering or any public place. Your anger and frustration may be right but yelling at them and creating the scene in front of people will hurt your partner’s ego which cannot be healed so early and easily.
You get irritated very soon
Are you facing a problem of getting irritated with your partner very soon and you simply do not have any idea about it? The better way to settle down this issue is to sit and ask yourself that what is going on in your mind. Moreover, if you discuss it with your partner, then that would be a better choice to sort things out together.
So, you better keep a constant check on your behavior. Sometimes things that have been not an issue for you is creating problems for your partner. Eliminate such habits to continue a happy, blessed life with your spouse.