Dating and relationships can be hard to decipher. We often struggle to figure out whether or not someone is interested in us. How can you tell if someone really likes you or not? It turns out there are some signs that show a guy is just not that into you. Read on to find out seven signs a guy isn't interested in you:
1. He Never Contacts You
If you're initiating all of the conversations, he's just not that into you. If a guy likes you, he'll call you, text you, contact you on social media, etc. If he's not doing any of these things, then he's not interested.
2. He Doesn't Listen To You
A definite sign that a guy isn't interested is if he doesn't listen to anything you say. If you've been hanging out for a few weeks and he still doesn't know basic things about you, it's because he doesn't care (or he has short term memory loss…). So if you're on the third date, and he asks you for the tenth time where you went to high school…yeah, he hasn't been listening.
3. He Sends Mixed Signals
If a guy keeps sending you mixed signals. consider him uninterested. When a guy likes you, he'll make it clear. If he's all over you one day and then ignores you for a week, he's putting you on the backburner. When he's sending you mixed signals, it's because he's keeping you around for his convenience.
4. He Flirts With Other Women
This one should be obvious, ladies. A guy isn't interested if he is blatantly flirting with other women. Sure, some guys just have flirtatious personalities. However, if he purposely flirts with other women in the hopes of hooking up with them, he's not interested in you.
5. He Doesn't Respect You
If a guy is not respectful to you, he definitely does not like you. When a guy is interested, he will treat you nicely. If he's disregarding you and treating you like dirt, it's because that's what he thinks of you.
6. He Doesn't Make Time For You
Everyone has busy lives, but if a guy likes you, he'll make time for you. If he constantly has excuses for why he's not hanging out with you, it's because he doesn't want to. A guy isn't interested in you if he's not making you a priority.
7. He Keeps You A Secret
This is a huge sign that a guy isn't interested. If you've been hanging out with you for a while and his friends and family have no idea you exist, this is an issue. When he's keeping you a secret, it's because he's not interested in something serious with you.