We all enjoy spending time with the person we love, but we can't spend every second together. Sometimes we just need space or time apart. You also can't always be together because of things like work and school. Even if you're apart, you still want the guy you like thinking about you, right? Every girl secretly loves a guy obsessing over her when he's not with her. Here are 7 tips to have him missing you like crazy when you're not around:
Spending Time Apart
They say, “absence makes the heart grow fonder”. There is a lot of truth to this old sentiment. We don't know how much we enjoy someone's company until we're without it.
So the first way to make him miss you like crazy is to give him some space. How can someone miss you if you're always around? This may be difficult because when you like someone you want to spend a lot of time with them. However, it's important to spend some time apart for him to realize how much he values you and your time together.
Don't Text/Call Constantly
This goes along with giving him some space. If you're constantly texting and calling him, it will feel like you never left. It can also become annoying if you're contacting him when he's busy.
If you keep the contact to a minimum, it will have him missing you like crazy. He'll start to miss speaking to you and hearing from you. It will also make you more intriguing, as he'll wonder what you're doing when you're not in touch with him.
While you don't want to text him constantly, you do want to text him every so often. Psychologists say the best time to contact a guy you're interested in is at night. This will make him more likely to dream of you and think of you when he wakes up the next morning.
Looking Your Best
This is more of a tip for making him attracted to you because the more he's attracted to you, the more he'll miss you. It's known that men tend to be more visual than women are. They rely more on their physical attraction to a woman than anything else. When a man finds a woman that he's really attracted to, he'll be thinking of her when he's not with her. So it's important to look your best when you're with him so you'll be on his mind when you're not together.
Not only is giving him a gift a nice way of showing you care, it is also a great way to get him to miss you. Give him something special for his birthday or just because you were thinking of him.
If you really want to give him something that reflects your relationship, make it a personalized gift. This could be something that has a picture of you on it or something that makes him think of you (a movie you saw together, a souvenir from somewhere you visited together, etc.) Whenever he sees this gift, it will remind him of how much you care about him and have him missing you terribly.
The physical contact you have when you're together will make him miss you like crazy when you're apart. Gently stroke his arm or tough his hand. He'll be thinking of these little moments when the two of you are not together.
Be active on social media when you're not with him. When you're out with friends, make sure to take pictures of yourself looking good and having a great time. When he sees the pictures of you hanging out with friends and having fun, it shows him you're not boring and makes you more desirable. Seeing how much fun you have with other people will have him missing you like crazy and wishing that you were having fun with him.
While you definitely enjoy spending time with your guy, you know you can't be together all the time. At least now you have seven tips that will keep you on his mind when the two of you are apart.