It's always exciting to find someone you're interested in and want to start a relationship with. The only scary part is seeing if they're interested in you too. Impressing a guy that you like isn't as hard as you think! While it can be a little nerve-wracking and stressful, there are some foolproof ways to have the guy you like falling at your feet in no time.
Here are ten simple ways to impress the guy you like:
1. Don't Worry, Be Happy
I once saw a bedazzled throw pillow that said, “Happy girls are the prettiest girls”. This isn't just a cute phrase for home decor; there's some truth to it. A woman with a smile on her face is instantly attractive. Her happiness and carefree aura pull people towards her. Someone who appears to be happy is more approachable and easier to talk to. So, if you're looking to catch a man's eye, put a smile on your face. He will gravitate towards you quicker than you could imagine.
2. Be Confident
Confidence is sexy on anyone and everyone. Men love a woman who is confident in herself. If you want to impress a guy, show him that you're confident. Even if you're feeling insecure and unsure, show that you have confidence. Taking pride in your appearance can help you to show more confidence. Put together a nice outfit or try out a new hairstyle. You'll be walking around with your head held high, and definitely be turning guy's heads.
3. Don't Admire His Friends
This might seem like a strange one, but it's important. Of course you want to like this guy's friends, but you don't want to like them too much. You can be friendly with his friends, but if you're too friendly, he might think you're interested in them instead of him. Another huge mistake is calling one of his friends “cute” or “hot”. Never do this! You may be tempted to do this, to make him show a little jealousy, but it will hurt you in the long run. He'll think you want his friend over him.
4. Have Common Interests
Having things in common will not only impress a guy, but also give you something to talk about. Take notice of things that he's interested in and learn a little about them. For instance, find out his favorite musician and listen to some of their music. He'll be impressed when you mention your favorite songs by them, and he'll be way more interested in you since you have a common interest.
5. Show Off Your Skills…in a Subtle Way
To impress a guy, you'll want to show him what you're good at. Maybe you're great at cooking or playing a certain sport. Show him what you're good at, but don't tell him it's what you're good at. For instance, invite him over to try a dish you're rally great at making, but don't tell him how all your friends rave about it. Let him be surprised when he tries at. He'll see for himself that you're a talented individual who has a lot to offer.
6. Don't Brag
This tip goes along with the last one. We know you're a talented girl with a lot to offer, but don't brag about it! Men cannot stand women who brag about their accomplishments or throw their achievements in everyone's face. Be modest and humble in your behavior. Once he gets to know you, he'll naturally see your accomplishments and he'll be beyond impressed.
7. Accept Help
Guys love to feel like they're helping a woman. If you want to impress him, let him help you out with something. Even if it's something you know how to do! For example, tell him you need some help fixing something in your home. Not only will it give you an excuse to invite him over, but it will also make hi feel good to think he helped you out.
8. Don't Criticize Him
When you're trying to impress a guy, pick your battles. Don't criticize every little thing that he does. (And if he does that many things that bother you, maybe he's not the right guy for you anyways.) If you're constantly nagging him about different aspects of himself, he'll quickly be turned off and want to limit his time around you.
9. Use Social Media Wisely
Social media is a useful tool. You can use it to make yourself look really appealing to a guy that you're trying to impress. Use social media to your advantage by uploading good pictures of yourself, or pictures of you doing fun things. This will make you more attractive to him and show him that you do fun things. You can also use social media to flirt with him by “liking” his pictures or posts and leaving cute comments.
10. Keep Some Mystery
Guys are intrigued by women who are mysterious. Don't be an open book right away. Keep some things to yourself and don't explicitly tell him everything you feel or think. Keep him on his toes! If you keep some things to yourself, he'll be dying to find out more about you. Wondering what you're really like and what your life is like will keep him endlessly interested.