How to Say ‘I Love You’ For the First Time and Get it Right!

Finally, you have found your soul mate. This face is surely the first one you want to see every day when you wake up in the morning and definitely, the last one before you go off to sleep. You are intensely attracted to this person, and your feelings are simply overwhelming, upon which you have no control anymore. Although you simply need to tell your partner that you love them, how exactly can you tell them in the sweetest and memorable way is most significant part of the start of your love life.

Undoubtedly, saying your first “I love you” is the toughest and a bit confusing too. Expressing for the first time can either make it or break it for you. Check out the following a few tips that can make this first time the most memorable of your times.

  • Do not hold it back:

When you feel it, just say it right away. There is nothing wrong with expressing yourself right there and then. It can happen anytime anywhere like in the middle of the grocery shopping or while driving, you feel it, then there is nothing beautiful than conveying it spontaneously. Say your heart out. Express in true real words straight from the heart.

  • At the end of the day:

Say “I Love You” at the end of the perfect evening spent together, is the best of all the times and an ideal way to start a long term relationship.

  • Snail mails are forever:

Yes!! Writing a long love letter to your loved ones can never lose its charm. Express yourself openly the way you feel, and you can end your letter with the three magical words “I Love You.”

  • Softly and gently:

There comes the time when you lay with your partner staring at the ceiling, stroking each other’s hair in soothing quiet moments. Well, cuddle up and whisper the words softly in your partner’s ear.

  • Food Treat:

It has always been commonly said that the best way to someone’s heart is through their stomach. Prepare a home cooked meal. Consider their choice, not that what you like. Do not forget to make the perfect table settings and arrangement. A light romantic music and candles can add in more, and it will make your partner feel special. Although these methods can very well express without saying a word, do not just stop here and say the words at the end of the dinner.

  • Look at the stars; they shine for you:

Plan a star gazing. Take your partner to an area where you can lay down and stare the stars up high in the sky. Hand over binoculars to your partner to look at the sky and paste a note on the glasses saying “I Love You” so when your partner sees through it, they will see those three words expressing your feelings for them.

Saying “I love you” comes with different circumstances. Some say it right there and then, some wait for the perfect time to come to make it a memorable one. Do what is more comfortable to you as long as you are not forcing yourself, and your emotions are real.


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