Heartbroken, trust shattered, badly hurt; managing to continue a relationship after this is very hard. Building a healthy and loving relationship is valuable, but sustaining such relationship matters more. You need to act humbly and sensibly while taking care of your relationship. Dealing with aggression or emotions often leads to disasters.
When relationships are deeply connected, the partners need not explain everything, their eye contact, their silence or their body language clears each other that things are not going well. Losing such a relationship will be the biggest mistake ever. The moment the feelings are developed, the efforts do not stop here and continue to keep it alive.
Below are the suggested ways that explain how you can treasure your relationship and prevent it from losing your best partner.
Communication, the key tool
Sometimes we ignore to communicate and do not say our heart out. Things and issues just pile up in us that ultimately burst out very furiously after some time, resulting in hurting the feelings of your partner. So secure your relationship by clearing things immediately rather than piling, misunderstanding and hurting your partner.
No matter whatever it takes, never tell a lie to your spouse. No matter how bitter is the truth, just say it out as lying hurts more than the truth. It results in the loss of trust. And once the trust is lost, it can never be gained, and of course, the relationship is going to end up very soon.
Setting up of your priorities
Do not ever place anything or any other person before your perfect partner. Nothing is as bad as the feeling of being ignored. It creates lots of misunderstandings. Your priority should be your partner and his happiness. In response to the negligence and ignoring the behavior of yours, you might lose your perfect partner forever.
Respecting and Caring
Give respect; get respect. Treat your partner very politely and respectfully. Never taunt or be rude to your beloved one. Your taunting attitude will create differences between you two. If something is troubling you, sit and discuss.
Care always melts the heart. You might be angry but never stop taking care of your partner. Your anger is on one side, but your love, care, and affection should never get a stop.
Always make your partner feels special
Giving and receiving small gifts very often is a cute little gesture which shows your partner your love and warmth. Leaving a little love note on the bedside table in the morning or the fridge before leaving the house makes the day of your partner just perfect, and it keeps on reminding your partner the feelings you possess.
Workout your problem before it gets too late
In a relationship, the ego cannot exist. Ego ruins every relationship. Saying sorry first is not at all a shameful act, or it does not lower you down. In fact clearing things up as early as possible and forgiving strengthen the relationship.
It takes ages to build up a healthy relationship and just a moment to destroy it. Never prolong the fights. Express openly. Show your love and care very frequently. Respect, listen and understand. Be supportive and keep on putting your efforts not to lose your perfect loving partner.