It’s so easy to get mad at a girl when she does something stupid and just say “Fuck it, I don’t need this chick anymore. I’m done with her.” Trust me. I know how it feels.
The last chick that forwarded my phone call I immediately hung up and texted, “You forwarding my phone calls is literally telling me to go fuck myself. So next time you even think about hitting my up for a booty call just take your dildo and shove it up your ass!”Needless to say I had a few drinks before, but I was still irate and rightfully so. She could’ve easily answered the phone call and said she was busy and I wouldn’t have given a shit.
But either way it’s never worth it. A week or two after I sent that text message I really didn’t feel like going out and she was the only girl I was dating that smokes and chills, so I had to swallow my pride and hit her up. Luckily, she’s also a little freak so I didn’t have to do much convincing to get her to come over.
If you consciously take an approach to try and maintain a relationship with every girl you have relations with, it pay’s huge dividends in the end. I’m talking dividends like buying Apple stock a few years ago. This summer I went to Miami and met this Brazilian girl really casually. We spoke for a few minutes at the bar, exchanged numbers and that was it. She friend requested me on facebook a few weeks later and a month ago when I was looking for plans for the weekend I get a message that says, “Hey I’m going to be in your state this weekend with a bunch of my Brazilian girlfriends.” The kid I worked with read the message over my shoulder and said, “Man do I fucking hate you.”
And so what if her friends looked more like they were from some South American Jungle and not your standard Brazillian smokeshows, my night still ended well to say this least. I even learned a little Spanish. “Ay Papi” will be stuck in my head for the next few days.
I also find that this strategy works well with flaky girls. Perhaps you get their numbers and they flake on you the first few times you try and hangout with them. But instead of calling it quits, you leave it alone for a few weeks and all of a sudden you get a text, “Heyy! What are you up to tonight?” Next thing you know you’re asking her if she wants to get some breakfast before you drop her off home.
The key to this approach is to keep relationships with everyone. When you start to pick and choose who you might want to meet up with again in the future it never works out because life is so unpredictable. So make an extra effort to keep lasting relationships with all girls because a little work here will do wonders for you in the future…