First off, I want to say that I’ve been there and understand what you are going through. Maybe you cheated on your ex. Maybe it was a stupid fight. Or maybe you simply took your ex for granted. No matter what the reason was, breakups suck. But here is the good news: you can get your ex back. With the ground-breaking system laid out in the e-guide “The Magic of Making Up” by T.W. Jackson, you can cut through all that drama and emotional baggage and not only get your ex back, but have an even better, stronger relationship than before.
What is The Magic of Making Up?
The Magic of Making Up is an e-guide which gives you a foolproof way of getting your ex back. The system works for both men and women, and it works whether you broke up yesterday, last week, or last year. It even can work if your ex is already in a new relationship.
I should point out that The Magic of Making Up was written in 2007, which seems like a lifetime ago. However, it is still considered the leading guide for getting your ex back. Many influential dating coaches even use T.W. Jackson’s strategies in their practices.
The guide lays out a simple technique which can be used to get your ex back. Because the technique is based in psychology, it almost always works and it works with both men and women. Just as importantly, the eBook helps you understand the reason why your relationship ended and helps you stay in control of your emotions after the fact. For these reasons, The Magic of Making Up is a must-read for anyone in a relationship because it can help you avoid breaking up by teaching you how to keep your emotions in check and avoid doing things you will regret.
What You Will Learn from The Magic of Making Up
I’ve read a lot of articles online about how to get your ex back, and also read a few eBooks on the subject. Most of them spew out the same generic advice, like “accidentally” bumping into your ex while you happen to look amazing, or sending “I’m sorry”. These tricks might help you get back together with your ex, but they don’t really help you make up with your ex. All of that hurt and baggage from your breakup will still be there.
The Magic of Making Up takes a completely different approach to getting your ex back. It doesn’t rely on a series of tricks. Instead, it lays out techniques which will help rekindle your relationship without dredging up old wounds and arguments. Follow these techniques and your relationship will be better and stronger!
After reading The Magic of Making Up, you will know:
- Why your relationship ended in the first place: You will learn the different reasons men and women abandon relationships, as well as what is really behind cheating.
- The “Fast Forward” Technique: When we go through a breakup, the first response is usually to panic. Our emotions get the better of us and we do things which make it harder to get back together, like saying things which push our ex’s buttons or trying to make the ex feel jealous. The “Fast Forward Technique” is a simple-but-effective system for getting over the hurt of a breakup so we don’t succumb to the panic response. Note that it can also help with other crises, like when you quit smoking or have a fight with a loved one.
- Whether you should reconcile or move on: There is even a worksheet which helps you take a fresh, objective look at your relationship so you can decide whether it is really worth it to pursue your ex.
- Confidence-boosting strategies to get your ex back: I actually found this part of the guide to be the most interesting, especially where it talks about rebound dating and how dating other people can bring you back together with your ex.
- How to get your ex to go out with you again: This is probably the most valuable part of the e-guide because it gets into very specific details about how to go about contacting your ex. Follow this advice and you will soon be on a date with your ex instead of desperately pleading and begging your way to oblivion.
- The Instant Reconnect Technique: Here is the genius part of The Magic of Making Up. Just use this simple technique and your ex will subconsciously believe that you two are back together again!
- And much more!
The Voice behind The Magic of Making Up
Before I read any dating or relationship guide, I like to learn a bit about the author to see if they really know what they are talking about. The author The Magic of Making Up is T.W. Jackson (aka “T Dub”). He has an impressive track record and reputation as a relationship coach who has indirectly helped over 100k couples across the globe fix their relationships after one party declared it “over”.
Even though T.W. Jackson has been out of the scene for a while, he is still considered one of the top dating coaches for men in the world. Along with The Magic of Making Up, he is also well known for his book Girl Get Ring, which was coauthored with Jonathan Green. The book teaches women “how to go from ‘hello’ to ‘I do’ as fast as womanly possible.” The book received a lot of praise for helping women understand what drives men so that both parties can get what they want out of the relationship.
What We Like About The Magic of Making Up
I love that The Magic of Making Up is a comprehensive guide which covers everything about relationship breakups. But the real gem of The Magic of Making Up is its “Instant Reconnect Technique”. The psychology behind the technique is incredible. Yet, the technique itself is incredibly simple and can be done in just a few seconds with basically no effort. The technique will subconsciously cue your ex into thinking you are back in a relationship, or it will immediately tell you that you still have some work to do.
Another thing that I like about The Magic of Making Up is that it is so straight-forward with the advice. It doesn’t try to fill up space with wit or clever antidotes. It just lays down the facts, like whether you should have sex with your ex, why you shouldn’t stress if your ex is dating again, and what to do if your ex brings up past conflicts.
It is nice that the guide talks about making up from both a male and female perspective. Not only does this mean you get more personalized advice, but it also helps you get into the head of your ex. So, you men will learn things like what your ex-girlfriend thinks when you sleep with her after a breakup. And you women will learn things like what really drives a man to cheat.
What We Don’t Like About The Magic of Making Up
As mentioned before, The Magic of Making Up was first written in 2007. The e-book is still as relevant today as it was in 2007. However, the style of the book is a bit dated. If you read as many eBooks as I do, then you will probably feel a bit disappointed with the bland layout, plain fonts, and lack of pictures.
Another thing I personally didn’t like about The Magic of Making Up is that one chapter got into a lot of details about appearance. In my opinion, it rambles on a bit too long about things like how to improve your physical health and diet. All of this is really important in order to “break the pattern” (which the book will explain), but I could have done without the specific advice like sources of protein! But, considering how many people let themselves fall into physical decay from inertia and junk food after they break up, I guess the author was right in covering the subject extensively.
Who Should Read This Book?
The Magic of Making Up was obviously written for people who want their ex back. But, honestly, I feel this should be mandatory reading for all people still in a relationship. Why? Because we all eventually have fights with the people we love and care about. The first chapter of the book alone can help you avoid a breakup because it talks about the real reasons for fighting, arguing and cheating. The second chapter is also a must-read for people in relationships because it talks about the panic response which occurs after a fight or breakup. The information given here will help you avoid (and forgive) hurts which come from the panic response, like when we say things we don’t mean.
Not all relationships can or should be saved. So, I’m happy that The Magic of Making Up has an entire chapter dedicated to moving on with grace. Because of this, I feel confident in recommending the e-guide to anyone in or out of a relationship.
But Is It Worth It?
So here is the question that we all ask before taking the plunge and buying a guide which could literally change our lives: is it worth it? I say yes, both in terms of the monetary cost and time you will spend reading the guide and putting its teachings into practice.
As for the monetary part, The Magic of Making Up is a good deal at just $39. Plus, it comes with a 60-day money-back guarantee, so you can buy and read it completely risk-free. As for the time you will spend, reading The Magic of Making Up is probably one of the best things you can do for yourself this year. Even if you decide that you don’t want to pursue your ex, the guide will help you put your relationships (past and future) in perspective and give you tools for coping with relationship problems.
Since it was first written, The Magic of Making Up has helped thousands of people get their love lives in order (and that’s not counting all of the relationship coaches who use the teachings of this guide in their practices). So, in short, it is definitely worth buying and reading!
My Final Thoughts on The Magic of Making Up
Relationships require a lot of work. Too many people throw in the towel the moment things start getting tough. Want proof? Just look at the rising rate of divorce, and how few relationships ever even make it to marriage. Because of this, I think that The Magic of Making Up is one of the most important and relevant relationship books of today.
I currently am not in the midst of a breakup, so I feel like I can look at this guide objectively (but maybe that is why I see so much value in the book for couples who are still in relationships). Overall, it is a great guide for helping overcome the trauma of a breakup and make the right decision afterwards – whether the decision is to make up with your ex or move on. I love that The Magic of Making Up really breaks down all of the aspects of a breakup, especially the reasons why we break up and our emotional response afterwards.
As for getting your ex back, the Instant Reconnect technique definitely works. I’ve already used it after a fight with my partner and it helped us get back on track faster. But this is really just the icing on the cake. The real reason to read The Magic of Making Up is because it will help you have better relationships going forward, whether with your ex or a new boyfriend or girlfriend.