Whether you like it or not, text messaging has completely changed the way we date. Phone calls are becoming increasingly rare and men are expected to charm women into dating them with witty, cute, or decisive texts. Used the wrong way, text messaging can make you seem desperate, creepy, or flat-out boring. But, when used the right way, texting won’t just help you get a date with a girl, but will make the girl dripping wet in anticipation of your date.
Given the importance of texting in the dating game, it is fantastic that there is finally a book out on the topic. “Patented” Pick Up Artists Bobby Rio and Rob Judge spent two years researching the text game. The result is their landmark eBook Magnetic Messaging. The book guides you through the principles of the text game and lays out the “Key-Lock Sequence” – a tested system which allows you to captivate any woman with just three simple texts.
What is Magnetic Messaging?
Magnetic Messaging is an e-guide which covers everything you need to know about using text messages to get a girl and keep her interested. Unlike other text messaging guides which give you a script to follow, Magnetic Messaging gives you a system called the “Key-Lock sequence” which you can use to “unlock the phone and text game”. The guide defines each step of the sequence, supplies plenty of examples and templates, and explains when and how much to use each. With this knowledge, you will never lose another girl because of bad follow-ups.
The Beauty of the Key-Lock Sequence
You will notice that the cover of Magnetic Messaging says “3 Texts To Fast-Track Attraction”. I admittedly was a bit doubtful when I read this because I thought the book would just be another generic guide with three so-called “magic” texts that worked on any girl. I’m happy to say that this is NOT the case.
What the cover is actually referring to is the Key-Lock sequence: a sequence of three types of texts which will get a girl to go out with you. Remember, the goal of the Key-Lock sequence isn’t to get a sexting buddy or even to become really good at text communication. The goal is to go on in-person dates with girls that result in sex or relationships.
The Key-Lock sequence is as simple as:
- Key: Spark an emotion
- Turn: Make a connection
- Handle logistics
In some cases, you might be able to get a date with a girl with just three texts. However, the authors of Magnetic Messaging make it clear that it doesn’t always go this way. The great thing is that they show you exactly how to move through the Key-Lock sequence so you don’t get stuck on one step or, worse, completely sidetracked. They also give you strategies for dealing with low interest, no response, and overcoming excuses.
What You Will Learn in Magnetic Messaging
Magnetic Messaging is the ultimate guide to text messaging. With the Key-Lock sequence, you will learn exactly how to use text messaging to get more dates with women.
But Magnetic Messaging wouldn’t be the ultimate guide to text messaging if it only showed you how to set up dates! I love that the authors tell you how to use text at all stages of the relationship (whether the relationship is purely sexual or a serious commitment). The e-guide breaks down texting into three phases by the stage of the relationship: 1) you want to date her, 2) you are sort of dating her, and 3) you are dating her. Depending on the stage of the relationship, you will use texting differently.
In the chapters of Magnetic Messaging, you will learn:
- The principles of the phone and text game
- How to use the Key-Lock sequence to get a date
- When and how much to text
- What to do if she doesn’t respond
- How to follow-up after a date
- How to text a girl you’ve just slept with
- The art of bantering (aka bullshitting)
- How to begin sexting
- How to get her to send naked pictures
- Ways to deal with logistics
- And tons more!
It Isn’t Just About Texting
On the surface, Magnetic Messaging seems to be just about how to use texts to get a girl hot for you. But really, the entire eBook is about the principles of “attractive communication.” Attractive communication is the art of using language in a way which effectively draws women in. You will be able to take this knowledge and use it in other aspects of dating – like when meeting girls for the first time, flirting, or dirty talk.
What We Liked about Magnetic Messaging
Now, there are lots of generic texting systems out there which just give you a script to follow and leave it at that. Again, Magnetic Messaging is NOT one of these! Instead of relying in a script, it lays out a clear-cut system which will work for any girl and any situation. Whether you’ve got your eye on a Midwest sweetheart you met at the library or a naughty hottie you were grinding up against in a club all last night, you will be able to get a date using the Key-Lock sequence.
I was quite taken aback by the sheer amount of research which obviously went into this guide. There are 191 pages cram-packed with first-hand knowledge, strategy, and examples. The book actually delves into some seriously complex psychology, yet it is still really fun to read. You will almost feel guilty after learning how easy it is to make a girl get dripping wet for you with just a few texts.
Another thing that we really liked about Magnetic Messaging is that the guide is full of examples of how to use the Key-Lock sequence. The guide is well written enough that you don’t have to worry about not understanding the info but, just in case something isn’t clear, you’ve got lots of examples to show you exactly how to use text to achieve the ultimate goal of getting in-person dates with girls.
What We Didn’t Like About Magnetic Messaging
One thing which might turn some guys away from Magnetic Messaging is that, at 191 pages, it is pretty friggin’ long. A lot of guys simply won’t want to commit that much time to reading the eBook! Honestly, this is pretty lame because it doesn’t take that long to read the guide. And, once you do read the guide, you are going to have a wealth of information which will seriously improve your text and phone game (and beyond). Spend a couple weeks going over the information laid out in the guide and you will save yourself a LOT of time in wasted connections (not to mention all the good times you will have as a result of everything you learn from Magnetic Messaging J).
The other thing worth pointing out about Magnetic Messaging is that it is all about text messaging! It doesn’t tell you how to actually get a girl’s number or how not to blow the date once you set it up. Granted, the information presented in Magnetic Messaging will seriously help you amp up your bantering and flirting skills. But, if you are really struggling even to get a number, then you might need to first work on things like your appearance, small-talk skills, and body language.
Does It Work?
So, here is what every guy will want to know before they throw down the cash to buy Magnetic Messaging: does it work? I say yes, and here is why.
A lot of guys don’t even think about text messaging as part of the dating game, nevertheless take full advantage of it. At the very least, Magnetic Messaging will get you thinking about the power of text messaging. Consider that phone calls are going out of fashion; they are awkward and the girl is often distracted when talking to her. Texts can be used effectively to get around the problematic nature of phone calls and set up dates quickly.
As for the Key-Lock sequence laid out in Magnetic Messaging, there is some serious psychology behind it. This isn’t too surprising considering that Rob Judge spent over two years studying texting. If you follow the sequence, you are almost sure to get a real date. And if the girl is flaky or unresponsive, the e-guide has all sorts of recovery strategies to bring her back into the game.
Who are Bobby Rio and Rob Judge?
Because this is such a comprehensive guide to text messaging, it is worth talking a bit about who the authors of Magnetic Messaging are.
The main author is Bobby Rio. He is a “patented ladies man” and the founder of one of the web’s leading men’s online magazines for dating and lifestyle advice. He has already authored numerous books, including “Control Her Attention: 9 Tools to Supercharge a Conversation and Never Run Out of Things to Say”, “The Shy Guy’s Guide to Talking to Girls”, and “Make Her Beg You to Bang Her.” What Bobby Rio is most known for is helping shy and boring guys seem more fun and interesting so they can attract hot girls.
Rob Judge is considered one of the most successful dating coaches online. He got his start in 2008 with the company RSD Nation. By the next year, he had already been named one of the “Top 10 Pickup Artists” in the world and was ranked #7 on PUA’s list of best dating coaches. He too has written numerous books with “Date Hotter Girls” being the most popular yet.
Should You Buy Magnetic Messaging?
If you are doing okay with getting numbers but are having trouble turning them into hot dates, then you need to read Magnetic Messaging. Even if you don’t think your game needs any work, the information you learn from Magnetic Messaging can completely change the way you play the game. Remember, this guide is really about “attractive communication” and not just texting. It literally breaks down texting as a mode of communication in a way which no other study has done so far (at least one which is fun to read and easy to apply to your everyday life). Once you learn these texting skills, your flirting and bantering skills are sure to improve too.
I’d also highly recommend Magnetic Messaging to guys who have been in relationships for a long time. It is so easy for LTRs to get boring and bland – and the “Third Phase” part of the book is a perfect remedy for that! It gets into some seriously hot details about how to use texting to heat things up, like getting her to send naked pictures and how to start sexting. There is even a chapter on how to bring up threesomes! You could very well use this information to bring up other play like anal, bdsm, or whatever you are into. This alone makes it worth buying Magnetic Messaging!
What You Get When You Buy Magnetic Messaging
Magnetic Messaging usually costs $97, which is pretty pricy for an eBook. But, right now, they are having a deal so you can get the complete e-guide for just $47. If that wasn’t sweet enough, they also throw in all sorts of great bonuses, including:
- 99 Best Text Messages of All Time
- The Infatuation Formula Video Program
- Free access to Magnetic Mastermind Kit
- And more goodies to improve your game
There is a 60-day money-back guarantee on Magnetic Messaging (which gives you plenty of time to put all this juicy knowledge to work!). So, if you don’t like it, you can always ask for your money back. In our minds, $47 for a guide which will help you get more dates and seriously improve your game is well worth the investment. So, try it out.