Undoubtedly relationships have needs to be flourished and to become successful. Although romantic gestures, communication, and memories are the key requirements for any relationship, however, there is one more thing that we usually ignore. And that is the power of love in a relationship!!
The selection of your words and the way you behave with your partner affects your relationship very deeply. Have you ever analyzed your behavior and your speech with your partner in public as well as in personal? Words can bring you close together, and the words can push away your partner. You may are doing well in communication and your body language; small gestures are perfectly fine, but sometimes the power of words are be misused which creates distances.
No matter what is the situation or what the circumstances are, following tips will be helpful in developing a better relationship with the positive usage of the power of words.
Speaking in private
Learn to listen to your partner first rather than saying no immediately. You can voice your idea or opinion very calmly. Do give your piece of mind and suggest ways in working out on the situation. Do not try to become dominant as it will end up on the battlefield and contradiction of opinion.
When others are around you
Both should be respectful to each other in gatherings. Never try to oppose your partner nor ever cut in between when he/she is trying to explain something. It is very much insulting as well as it lowers down the confidence of your partner. You can politely join in the conversation but never try to lead or overpower you partner.
Craving for compliments is human nature. Compliment very often. Do not only compliment about the physical traits but also for the personality, job or anything you see worth appreciating. Compliments always boost up the morale and your partner will love to share every problem, every mistake with you.
On the other hand, if you start criticizing your partner, they will try to hide their mistakes and problems from you as they are scared of being judged negatively and poorly.
Watch out for your words in an argument
Disagreements and arguments are the regular and most common affair in a relationship. Try to avoid being sarcastic as it will badly hurt the feelings of your partner and he/she will be left fuming after that.
What I believe, there is no individual winner of an argument, either both losses or both are the winners. So avoid using such words that are really harsh and it makes your partner lose confidence and feel weak. Most importantly, after an argument is over, no matter how bad it was, just apologize and hug each other to set all the things back to normal again.
Always voicing your regrets about your life will have a negative impact on your relationship as your partner start blaming him for all this. They will get irritated and annoyed.
It is better to make your partner sit and discuss your problems rather than all the time being a pessimist about your life. A supporting partner will definitely make sure that you are out of your regrets very soon.
Usually we overlook the power of words quite easily but in my opinion power of words while you communicate is far more important than any other thing that you think is essential for a happy relationship.