If you’re one of those women who get everything right in their life except relationships, it can be very frustrating and discouraging. We are pretty sure that lots of people, and after knowing about your situation, will tell you to change your dating approaches, or even tell you to quit dating altogether. Ouch!
However, in your relationships, if you keep falling for men, who aren’t right for you, again and again, then maybe it’s time you take a closer look at yourself, and see if you’re accidently ruining your love life. Here are some signs to look out for:
Dating Unavailable Men
Are you continuously falling for men who just can’t comprehend the seriousness of being in relationships? By, unavailable men, we aren’t referring to guys who already are dating someone, but who are emotionally incapable of being in committed and long-term relationships. You can evaluate a man’s emotional maturity by paying attention to how he treats his other relationships like friends, family, and co-workers. If he has trouble in managing these relationships, it’s highly likely that he will fail in romantic relationships as well.
Making Peace with Unacceptable Behavior
If your find behaviors unacceptable in other people how come you’re so comfortable and forgiving to these same behaviors in your boyfriend? Is it because you’re in a relationship? Or is it because it’s justified to have some rude behaviors in people as no one is perfect? If this the case, then it shows that you’re in a relationship with a man not right for you and depriving yourself of real love which you rightfully deserve.
Holding Onto Exes and Past Relationships
Many, especially women sulk over their exes and past relationships, despite the fact things ended up very badly. Holding onto your ex will make it harder for you to move on and find new love. Unless you actually believe that one day might come when you and your ex-boyfriend will reunite. But, these events don’t occur very often, so it’s for your best that you both go separate ways. Thinking about your ex will prevent the space in your heart to be occupied by someone else. So, let go of your ex completely and move on.
The Fear of Loneliness Or Never Finding Love Again
One of the primary reasons most of the stay in poor relationships or unable to break up with our boyfriend or girlfriends is that we are scared of being alone or remain single the rest of our lives. It’s not true at all, and most of us know, but we are still too weak to let go of our fears. The reality is that it is this fear that will push your new love away, and prevent him or her to establish an intimate and emotional connection with you. A great guy who’s mature, conscious and single wants to have a relationship with a woman who possesses the same qualities and is genuinely prepared to give and receive love. And the fear of loneliness and never finding love again will stop her from doing it.
If you’re looking for love, then the only things that are stopping to find true love is you. And the first step to be in a relationship is to acknowledge it and accepting that it’s true and changing it.