Love is beautiful. But the question is that “is it working out for you?” Are you happy with it? Well, love can be built over time, or it might degrade you. It can become complicated for you to accept that your partner is getting out of your hands and there is nothing that you can do about it. On the other hand finding someone who will love you for the rest of your life is not easy, and maybe that is why we continue to stay in a terrible relationship. This is what I believe isn’t fair with you as well as with your partner.
One day this one-sided relationship is going to turn off so what are you waiting for? To avoid pain, it is better to accept the reality and face the truth at the earliest rather than later. Check out the following points and consider your partner as well as yourself while going through these characteristics:
Your partner is comfortable with the routine
If you suggest changing something that happens on a daily basis, your partner protests about it; like you ask for the dinner out, and they grunt about it. They never allow room for change.
Your relationship is stale
After reading out the first one, you have reached the point in your relationship where everything is stale. It is YOU who always has to make out plans, and if they agree to it, they would not be available for the occasion. Moreover, you have to plan out even for romance.
They put minimal effort when it comes to social situations
If you both are invited at a place, your partner may join you but will keep themselves away from the people important to you. They will most likely stay quiet or will just reply if addressed otherwise they will never make any effort to spark the conversation.
They will keep you away from their important people
Your partner has some important family members and friends, but they keep you away from them, then this is a red flag. If he loved you, he would never mind if you meet with his friends and family, and if they are doing so, then something is wrong which you need to be worried about.
Your partner takes you for granted
Small cute loving gestures keep your love life moving. But even these go unnoticed then it hurts very badly. Suppose you never want to bring your partner's favorite food home back from work just to listen to a monotone “thanks.”
One sided openness
Maybe it is just you who talks about your day, your commitments, late projects, any family updates or friend drama. Perhaps you are the one who is open to discussing the issues and concerns related to your relationship. Does your partner play any role in it?
When do you feel the best?
This is a very serious question which you need to ask yourself. Do you feel better when your partner is with you? Or do you feel good and comfortable when your partner is not around?
Undoubtedly, a one-sided relationship may leave you depressed and dejected, but it can pave you a path to find the love of your life.