From our experiences, we have found that most men overwhelmingly tend to go for women, who don’t care much about their life and only looking for a man and a relationship. Well, this is really disparaging for successful women and for ladies who have their act together. It’s a mistake many men might be making; there is no doubt about it.
So, why is that men fall for women less successful and ambitious than them? There are two big reasons.
First, Men Are Misreading You
Does being successful in career change the way you act in love and relationships? Even for men, balancing work and relationships can be a real challenge. So, ask yourself if you’re going to have the same level of success as men in your business or career because you seem to be more organized? One big mistake most men make that they can apply the same skills to make their relationships healthy and successful, which have made them successful in their professional lives. But, it doesn’t actually. If you bring your office at home, the additional stress from working from home can be detrimental to your relationship. This also applies to professional women too. If you’re persistently stressed out and busy with work, you won’t be able to communicate your gentle and feminine side of you to your boyfriend or husband, or to your family. If a man fails to see your soft, feminine side of you, he might misread you for a woman who is seriously looking for love and intimacy.
Second, It’s Not Your Success; It’s The Attraction That Matters
To tell the truth, if you’re a successful woman, you’ll be surprised to know a man isn’t after your personal accomplishments, your Ivy League degree or that impressive job title. He is looking for a woman to love. If you think that concealing or downplaying your success will help you to find a great guy, the truth it will not be very useful in making or breaking a relationship in the end. If you want to get a man’s attention and interest, he needs to feel it when he’s around you. We aren’t referring to the physical attraction here, though it also plays a small role. But, what we are actually pointing out here is the emotional appeal, which is much more imperative than physical attraction. A man will get emotionally attracted to a woman when he notices something particular and unique about a woman’s personality. It’s this kind of woman a man will seriously consider having a committed and long-term relationship.
The Bottom Line
Now that you’re aware that a man isn’t really interested in your resume, but it’s your personality that’s he is after, and how you make him feel when he’s around you. Personality is very important while searching for a relationship, both for men and women. When you’re creating great moments and experiences with a man or a woman, don’t let your career or achievements come in between your love life. Being successful as well as being in a fantastic relationship is itself a great accomplishment and a bonus.