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6 Ways to Make Your Ex Regret Dumping You

So you got dumped. Don't feel bad; it happens to the best of us. While most breakups are usually a good idea and lead to better things down the road, there are some breakups that are not destined to be permanent. Do you find yourself still pining for your ex? Do you feel that the breakup was a mistake? It's possible that your ex will regret the breakup and want to reunite. If you feel that this is the case, your ex might need some encouragement to see the light and realize that dumping you was a huge mistake.

Here are six things to do that will make your ex regret dumping you:

1. Cut Off Contact

The first thing you want to do after a breakup is cut off all contact. This will give your ex an opportunity to see what life is like without you. Once they haven't heard from you in a while, they'll begin missing you. If you continue to contact them after the break up, you'll only annoy them and confirm that they made the right choice. Do not text them, call them, or engage with them in any way. This will show them what a world without you in it looks like, and they'll quickly regret dumping you.

2. Delete Their Number

This step will help you to cut off contact with your ex. Delete their number from your phone. Delete them off your social media. Remove any temptation to contact them. This will also help you to heal from the breakup because you will not see constant reminders of them in your contacts or on your social media. It will help to put a “nail in the coffin” so to speak. While you are erasing traces of your ex, they will begin remembering your relationship.

3. Have Fun

After the breakup, you will need to fill your life with fun things to do. Go out with friends. Spend time with family. Find a new hobby. Go on that vacation you always wanted to go on. Not only will fun activities distract you from thinking about the breakup, it will show your ex that you are fine without them. Whether they see pictures of you having fun online, or they hear about it from mutual friends, your ex will see that you are doing okay. This will only make them desire you more and have serious doubts about breaking up with you.

4. Make Them Jealous

Making your ex jealous is a foolproof way of filling them with regret. Let them see you having fun with other people. Let them see you talking to other potential love interests. The thought that someone else is enjoying your company will drive them crazy. They will hate the idea of you making new memories with someone else and forgetting all about your life with them. Before you know it, they will seriously regret dumping you.

5. Make Big Changes

Whether it be physical or emotional, you're going to want to make some changes. Show your ex that you can move forward with your life. It could be a new haircut that boosts your confidence, or a new job that challenges your skills. A major life change will not only make you feel better, but it will also show your ex all that you are capable of. They'll be amazed seeing a new side of you and it will only make them want you more.

6. Communicate Again…Eventually

While you want to cut off all contact initially, you'll want to start talking to your ex again eventually. After taking the appropriate time to move on (typically a few months, depending on how long the relationship was), initiate contact with your ex again. Keep it short and simple, and definitely do not let on that you want them back. Keep things friendly at first and see where they stand. Maybe meet up for coffee or go for a walk. Let your ex see how much they missed spending time with you. After hanging out as friends a few times, your ex will see how much you mean to them and they will regret dumping you.

Obviously before you begin doing any of these things, you need to consider if you really want to get back together with your ex. Some breakups are for the best. It's possible that the sadness you are feeling is just loneliness, not actually missing your ex. However, if you truly feel like your breakup was a mistake, then by all means do what it takes to make your ex regret dumping you!

8 Ways to Make a Girl Chase You

Most men would love to have women lusting after them. However, this is not always easy to accomplish. Unless you're Ryan Gosling, I doubt women are chasing after you or competing for your attention. While you may not be what every woman desires, there are some things you can do to get a girl that you're interested to start vying for your affections.

Here are eight tips to make a girl chase you:

1. Be Friendly

Just as a decent human being you should always be friendly. Not only is being friendly the right thing to do, it will also get the girl you like to chase you. Women want to be treated well. They want someone who will be kind and compassionate. So the first thing you should do to get on a girl's radar is to be a friendly person. It will be a good quality that immediately gets her attention.

2. Make Her Laugh

It's a pretty well-known fact that women love funny guys. Making a woman laugh is an excellent way to make her chase you, because a sense of humor automatically makes you more attractive. Even if you aren't a Jared Leto or Zac Efron, (which, let's face it, you probably aren't), making a girl laugh will make you so much more attractive that she'll overlook the fact you aren't a gorgeous movie star.

3. Give Her Space

If you really want a woman to chase you, you need to give her the space to do so. This means not being around her all the time and not contacting her constantly. You need to give her some time away from you to see how much she misses your company. Once she's had time away from you, she'll realize how much she likes being around you.

4. Drop Hints

A girl is not going to chase you if she sees no hint that you're interested in her. She's not going to waste her time on someone she doesn't see a chance with. You don't want to blatantly let her know that you're interested, but drop some small hints that you do like her. When you are around her, you can flirt with her a little or compliment her. You can also use social media to your advantage to drop hints. You can “like” a photo of her or one of her posts. It will let her know that you are interested to some extent.

5. Have a Great Personality

This one goes without saying…but I'm going to say it anyways. You To get a girl to chase you, you need to have a great personality. Girls hate guys who are downers! If you're mean and miserable all the time, she definitely won't want to be around you. You need to be upbeat and fun. She wants to be with someone who's the life of the party, not someone who's a pity-party.

6. Play Hard to Get

If you want a girl to chase you, play hard to get. This will only make you more desirable. If you're readily available to her at all times, she'll lose interest in you. She needs to see you as a real catch, as something worth chasing. If you just immediately give in to her, what does she even need to chase?

7. Don't Act Desperate

This is a very important thing to remember: never act desperate. Women loathe men who are desperate. Do not call her or text her incessantly. Do not act frantic if she doesn't respond to you right away. Act like you don't need her attention. Let her think that other women are competing for your attention (even if they aren't). This will make her see that you're not desperate for anyone's affection and if she wants to be with you, she needs to chase after you.

8. Be Mysterious

It's a tale as old as time: girl falls in love with the bad boy. You don't have to actually be a “bad boy”, but keep her wondering. Don't show her every aspect of who you are. Keep some parts of your life mysterious. This will drive her crazy with curiosity. She'll see you as an elusive, mysterious “bad boy”, and only want you more than ever. To keep the air of mystery, you need to be vague when answering her or giving her details about your life. Before you know it, this girl will be chasing after you.

6 Tips for Talking to a Girl for the First Time

Talking to a girl for the first time can be a really intimidating thing. You don't want to make a total fool of yourself or offend her. The fear of embarrassing yourself may be so strong that you decide not to approach her at all. When it comes to talking to a beautiful woman, most men share this same anxiety. With confidence and the right approach, talking to a girl can be easier than it seems.

Here are six tips for talking to a girl for the first time:

1. Be Confident

When it comes to talking to a girl for the first time, confidence is key. If you're insecure or unsure of yourself, that will show. Insecurity can easily be seen in your facial expressions, body language, and the way you speak. Any trace of insecurity is only going to turn her off. Before you even think of approaching her, you need to build up your confidence. Wearing a nice outfit or good cologne might help you to feel more confident before approaching her. You also need to make sure you are calm, cool and collected. Remaining calm will help you to feel more confident.

2. Make Eye Contact

The first step in initiating a conversation with anyone is to make eye contact. Before you try talking to a girl, you need to make eye contact with her first. This will give her a head's up that you're interested in talking to her. If you approach her without making eye contact first, you'll just catch her off guard and you might freak her out. Making eye contact with a woman doesn't mean staring at her intensely. This will definitely creep her out. You just want to make eye contact for a few seconds, preferably with a smile. This will let her know you're interested in talking.

3. Don't Use Pickup Lines

As tempting as it may be, do not use a pickup line when you approach a girl for the first time. These are so cheesy and never work. This is your only chance to make a good impression. You don't want to ruin it with an awful pickup line that this poor girl has probably heard a thousand times before. Instead, try starting off with a simple compliment to her. You could also say something about your surroundings, which can lead to some small talk. This will be much more effective than using a played-out pickup line.

4. Keep it Friendly

When you are talking to a girl for the first time, keep the conversation light and friendly. Don't bring up anything serious, because you don't know each other very well. This will only make her think you're strange. Try not to be negative about anything because it will create a bad first impression. You want her to think you're a nice, fun person, not a negative person who complains about everything. Keep a slight distance, so you're not making her uncomfortable. You also want to steer clear of unloading a bunch of personal information on her, because then you're a real weirdo.

5. Make Her Laugh

Women love guys who can make them laugh. Making her laugh will not only attract her, but it will also help ease any nerves you might have. You can make a joke about something around you or even a joke about yourself. If you can make her laugh, you're off to a great start. You can use some subtle sarcasm, but not too much. Otherwise you'll just come as arrogant or rude. Keep it simple and lighthearted and the laughter will make the rest of the conversation a breeze.

6. Don't Be Offensive

This is the most important thing to remember when you're talking to a girl for the first time. If you offend her during the first conversation, that will be the last conversation. Women do not like men who are rude or mean. Know the difference between a friendly joke and a mean remark. If you say something that she perceives as cruel, that will likely be the end of your conversation. Stay away from comments that can be offensive and you'll have no problem talking to a girl for the first time.

6 Ways to Make Your Ex Miss You Like Crazy

So your relationship ended. These things happen, and sometimes they're for the best. However, some relationships are not meant to end. If you're going through a breakup and feel like it was a mistake, you may want to reunite with your ex. Before you can even begin to think of reuniting, you need to make sure that your ex also wants to get back together. For your ex to reunite with you, they need to first miss you. How can you make sure that your ex misses your relationship?

Here are six ways to make your ex miss you like crazy:

1. Cut Off Contact

The first step after any breakup is to cut off all contact. You need to delete their phone number. Remove them from your social media. If you're constantly calling or texting your ex, it doesn't even give them an opportunity to miss you. In fact, contacting them all the time will only make them glad to be away from you. In order for your ex to miss you, you need to remove yourself from their life. Once they haven;t heard from you in a long time, they'll realize that they miss talking to you.

2. Let Time Pass

After a breakup, you need to take some time to recover. The amount of time differs depending on how long the relationship was. Experts recommend that you need at least 3 weeks to a month to start recovering after a breakup. Take the appropriate time to grieve the end of your relationship. By not contacting your ex, you are also giving them the appropriate amount of time to grieve the end of the relationship. During this time, don't go crazy trying to reach out to your ex. Don't go to places where you might see them. This time is reserved for being completely apart. It will definitely be hard, but in the long run it will help to make your ex miss you.

3. Don't Show You're Sad

Obviously you will be sad after a breakup, but don't make your sadness public. The designated time period after a breakup is the time for sadness. Stay home, listen to sad songs or watch sad movies. Take the time for yourself, and keep it to yourself. You might be compelled to post sappy song lyrics on your social media or make cryptic posts about how your relationship ended. Do not do this. You can share your sadness with a close friend or family member, but don't broadcast it for the world. Letting everyone see how sad you are will embarrass you and will not make your ex miss you at all.

4. Have Fun

In order to make your ex miss you like crazy, you need to starting having a lot of fun. After you've spend the appropriate time in mourning, you'll feel better to start going out and having fun. Go out with your friends. Spend time with your family. Pick up interesting new hobbies. Go on a vacation. Doing fun things will not only keep your mind off the end of your relationship, it will also show your ex that you are doing just fine. If your ex sees how much fun you are having without them will make them crazy with jealousy and also see how much they miss you.

5. Live Your Life

After your breakup, you need to move on with your life. It may be difficult, but it is for the best. It will also help with your goal of making your ex miss you like crazy. Once they see that you are living your life without them, they'll see that maybe they made a mistake. Focus on schoolwork or things at your job. Make new friends. Go sightseeing. Continue living life without your ex and it will show them that you are strong and independent. This will only make you more desirable and make your ex miss you more than ever.

6. Create a Friendship

Once a long time has passed with no contact, you'll want to initiate contact with your ex again. You don't want to be too serious or let them know that you want them back. Keep it friendly. Make plans to do something casual like go out to lunch or to a park. Spending time with you as a friend will remind your ex of all the things  they loved about you. After you've established a good friendship, you will be comfortable to approach the idea of reuniting with your ex.

4 Ways to Impress a Guy Through Messages

So you just met a guy you like and you want to make a good impression? Back in the day, you would've been stressing over what outfit to wear or how to do your hair. While those things are still important, times have certainly changed! In today's world, text messages and online chats are your first opportunity to make a good impression. The messages you send and the things you say will be a huge reflection of who you are when talking to a new guy. It's important to know how to look good through messaging. You'll need to master certain tips and techniques to get the guy you're chatting with to be interested in you.

Here are four tips and tricks for impressing a guy through messages:

1. Flirt!

This one should be obvious. If you want to let this guy know that you're interested in him, you'll need to master your flirtation skills. You're probably wondering how exactly you're supposed to flirt through a text message… Well, the same way you would in person! Joke with him. Make playful jabs at him. Be sarcastic (but not too much). The only difference between flirting through messaging and in person is that your tone doesn't translate well through messages. You might make a joke, and he won't realize you're joking. This is where emojis become your best friend. A winking smiley emoji can be the difference between a playful joke and a rude remark.

2. Keep it Brief

When you're chatting with a guy through texting or messages, keep it short. Don't send him long paragraphs that detail every aspect of your day. You'll just bore him to death. Don't overload him with ten texts in a row. He'll think you're crazy and needy.  Keep your messaging short and simple. Ask him questions about himself. Let him do the talking. If he wants to know something about you or your life, he'll ask. Keeping it brief will keep him curious, and also keep him from getting annoyed with you.

3. Don't Seem Desperate

This is an important one. Nothing sends a guy running away like desperation. Even if you are desperate, don't look desperate.  You need to play hard to get through your messages. Don't let him think that you're waiting for his reply or that you're thinking of texting him all day. Let him think you don't need to speak to him. You can achieve this by spreading your responses out. If he texts you, don't respond immediately. I know it can be hard, but wait a few hours. This will keep him guessing. This will also keep you from looking desperate. Plus, it creates some mystery about you. If you're not always responding to him right away, you'll have him wondering what you're up to.

4. Send Pictures

A picture is worth a thousand words, right? No, I don't mean dirty pictures. (Unless both parties are interested and consenting to that…I'm not here to judge.) I mean interesting or intriguing pictures. Send him a picture that will spark a conversation. This could be something funny you saw that day or a cool place you visited. Send him a picture of something you think he'd like to see. It could be of something you guys talked about before, or just something that reminded you of him. Either way, a picture breaks up the monotony of small-talk. He'll be glad to see he received a picture, rather than the usual “How was your day?”

The Basics

To keep it simple, here are some guidelines to follow when trying to impress a guy through messages:

  • Don't chat too much, too long or too often.
  • Make sure this guy does actually want to speak to you.
  • Send interesting pictures.
  • Don't be vulgar or offensive.
  • Stay away from drunk texting. (This is just asking for embarrassment.)
  • Make it personal.
  • Don't bore him.
  • Be yourself!


7 Ways to Have Her Missing You Like Crazy

Whether you're in a relationship or there's a girl you're interested in, you want the girl you like to miss you when you're not around. If she feels what it's like to miss you, it'll make her realize how much she really likes you and your time together. Here are seven ways to have the girl you like missing you like crazy:

Give Her Some Space

How is she going to miss you if you're always around? In order for her to start missing you like crazy, you need to give her some space. Whether it be for work, school or to hang out with friends, you'll need to spend some time apart. This might be difficult because you probably want to spend all of your time with her. However, it will be worth it. Once you've had time apart, she'll realize how much she misses your company and it will be that much more special when you do see each other.

Don't Contact Her All the Time

If you want a girl to really miss you, you need to limit your contact with her. If you're texting and calling her all the time, it'll feel like you never left. And if you text or call her when she's busy, then you're just being annoying. Constant contact will only push her away.

If you want her to be missing you like crazy, keep contact to a minimum. Not only will this make her miss you, but it will also give you more intrigue. She'll wonder what you're doing when you aren't contacting her and she'll be attracted to the mystery.

Have Fun Without Her

This may be hard because you want to include her in your fun, but it will better for you both in the long run. If you want her to miss you, go out and have some fun without her. Hang out with the guys, go to a concert, or go out with your family. Make sure to post pictures on your social media of you having tons of fun. This will make her wish she were hanging out with you and having a great time. It will also let her know you're not boring.

Show Her That You're a Leader

When you are with your girl, show her that you can be a leader. Take charge of situations. Make important decisions. Help her with tasks and things she needs done. This will make her value what you bring to the table. If you show how important you are to have around, she will notice the void left you're gone.

Give Her Gifts

It's no secret that girls love to get gifts. If you get her gifts, not only will you make her super happy, you'll also make her miss you more.

Get her a special gift that reminds her of you, and she'll think of you every time she sees it. This might be something she'll use everyday, like a makeup palette or purse. Whenever she uses it, she'll think of you and how kind you are. It could also be something personal that makes her think of your relationship, like a picture frame with a portrait of the two of you. Either way, getting your girl gifts will have her missing you like crazy.

Talk to Her Before Bed

While you don't want to contact her constantly, you do want to contact her at night. Studies have shown that before bed is the best time to speak to someone you love. Talking to your girl at night will make her more likely to have dreams of you when she falls asleep. It will also make her wake up thinking of you and wanting to see you.

Make Her Feel Great When You See Her

If you want to have your girl missing you like crazy, you need to make her feel amazing when you two are together. Fill her life with happiness and give her compliments. Make her best days the ones that she gets to spend with you. If you can do this, she'll want to spend every day with you because she'll enjoy your company that much.

Obviously you can't spend all of your time with the girl that you care about. Between work, school, or time with friends and family, the two of you are going to be apart at some points. Even though you can't spend every second together, you can have your girl thinking of you every second now that you know the seven tips to have her missing you like crazy.


9 Ways to Tell A Girl Has A Crush On You

It can be hard to tell if a girl you like, likes you back. When you're talking to a girl, you're probably trying to figure out what's in her head. You may wonder if she's just being friendly or if she is interested in you as something more. Here are nine ways to tell if a girl has a crush on you:

Acting Weird

Does this girl seem super nervous when she talks to you? Does she fidget with a nearby object or bite her nails? Does her face become red and flushed? These can all be signs that she has a crush on you. Girls will often get nervous and appear to act strange when talking to a boy that they like.

Always Looking at You

This one can be tricky. Either you have something embarrassing on you…or she likes you. We're hoping it's the latter. Experts say that if someone makes and uninterrupted gaze at you for longer than 5 seconds, they're interested. If you keep catching this girl staring at you, she just might have a crush on you.

Making Excuses to See You

Do you find that you keep running into one another? Did you see her at a coffee shop you hang out at? Did you bump into her shopping at your favorite store? This is no coincidence. Girls take notice of the places you frequent and they'll start to hang out there. If a girl is purposely trying to run into you, this is a pretty clear sign she has a crush on you.

Laughing at All Your Jokes

Does the girl in question nearly fall on the floor with laughter when you tell a joke? Odds are you aren't that funny. Only so many of us are gifted with comedic genius.So if this girl acts like you're the next Jim Carrey, it's probably because she likes you. When a girl has a crush on you, she'll think all of your jokes are funny. This is partly because she likes you so much that she genuinely appreciates your jokes and because she's trying to make you feel good.

Playing With Her Hair

When a girl has a crush on you, you'll catch her playing with her hair for several reasons. The first reason is that it is a nervous habit. Like we said before, if she has a crush on you, she'll be nervous around you. So when you see her twirling her hair in her fingers, it's probably a nervous habit. Another reason is that she's drawing subtle attention to her hair. It's a known fact that men love long hair on women. If she's playing with her hair a lot in front of you, she might be trying to draw attention to her long locks.

Prolonging Conversations

In general, when you're attracted to someone you enjoy talking to them. If you notice that this girl keeps striking up conversation with you, it could be because she has a crush on you. Also, if you find that she prolongs every conversation, it could be because she has a crush on you. She might prolong the conversation by asking you a lot of questions and trying to show that she's interested in you. You'll also notice that she remembers even the smallest of details from your conversations. These are all huge signs this girl has a crush on you.

Sneaking In Subtle Touches

When you're around this girl, does she casually touch your arm or hand? She might be trying to “accidentally” touch you because she has a crush on you. Pay attention to how often she accidentally grazes your hand/arm/leg. If it's something she does continuously throughout conversation, it could be because she has a crush on you.

Changing Body Language

Watching a girl's body language is a foolproof way of seeing if she has a crush on you. Here's some changes in body language to look out for:

  • Dilated pupils – When you're attracted to someone, your pupils will dilate.
  • Turning towards you – We try to direct our bodies towards someone we feel attracted to.
  • Stepping in close – If she likes you, she'll try to stand closer and closer to you.
  • Increased heart rate – Our hates races when we feel attraction.
  • Fast blinking – Psychologists believe that rapid blinking is a sign of attraction.
  • Copying your mannerisms – Studies have shown that when attracted to someone, we begin to subconsciously mirror their mannerisms.

Acting More Seductive

This sign could occur in several ways. If a girl is dressing more seductively it could be because she is trying to get your attention. Is she wearing plunging necklines and short skirts when she never used to before? It could be a personal change in style or it could be because she has a crush on you. She might also act in a more seductive manner around you, like sitting in a way that shows more leg when you're talking to her.

Decoding a girl's actions can be super hard. Figuring out if her actions means she has a crush on you is even harder. Hopefully these nine signs help you find out if the girl you like has a crush on you.

How To Nicely Tell Someone That You Are Not Interested

We all experience this while dating. We go on a date with someone we're interested in, but your instincts tell you that he or she isn’t right for you. You want to say it to him or her, but can’t, as you don’t want to hurt their feelings. So, what’s the best way to handle the situation? How can you nicely tell someone that you aren’t interested? What should you say?

Usually, considerate people will simply disappear without telling their dates anything. They justify this awful action by convincing themselves that they’ve done this because they don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings. It is way better than rejecting someone they have no interest in dating. Is this the right way? Honestly, it’s downright wrong. By not giving any explanation why you left without telling him or her, you’re doing the thing you always wanted to avoid – hurting the other person. You see, nobody likes to be in the dark. It’s inconsiderate, rude and disrespectful. Everyone deserves to be treated honorably. So, handle the situation with an appropriate level of consideration and maturity by investing all your efforts.

Honesty is crucial in a relationship. Always deliver the truth, no matter how harsh or hurtful it can be or how bad the consequences will be to the other person. If you aren’t interested, instead of making him or her wait, be direct and tell them, “I’m not interested in you.” Delivering this message can make any person uneasy, but it will certainly create more pain and discomfort if you delay it. This message will give the person you rejected closure. Otherwise, people can be left thwarted, questioning themselves of their worth.

How the message will impact the other person depends on what you say and how you say it. Sometimes it’s better to keep the explanation brief. Some men and women would be really happy if you gave them detailed reasons. Remember, it’s mainly how you say it, not just what you need them to hear. Keep your tone calm, and be assured, relaxed and gentle. Never be defensive or dismissive. Tell him or her that, you had a great time on the date, but it occurred to you that you aren’t interested in taking this further. Tell them they are a wonderful person with a great personality and qualities, but you noticed that your interests, goals, and personality are different than their's. End it by telling them that you hope they understand and that you aren’t the right person for them.

Also consider the medium you will use to convey your decision. An email may be adequate in some situations, while some will require a reason at the end of the date. But if you want to leave the other person after a few dates, having a conversation over the phone is a commendable choice.

Lastly, if you’re the person who is on the receiving end, remind yourself that finding someone for a relationship always involves some degree of trial and error. Keep in mind that the person you dated rejected you not because there is something wrong with you. It happened because this wasn’t the right match or relationship for you. Be patient with yourself, keep moving ahead, and you will find someone right for you.

3 Crucial Steps To Find The Woman Of Your Dreams

When you ask an average guy what his “dream woman” is like, don’t be surprised that most of them will say they want someone who is drop-dead gorgeous. In other words, physical beauty is the top priority for men looking for a partner. We all know that physical beauty isn’t the only quality that’s required for a healthy and long-lasting relationship. In fact, relationships based on physical attraction don’t last.

So what should a man look for when finding the right person, or should we say his “dream woman” to be in a long-term relationship? Here are three crucial steps to finding and keeping the woman of your dreams:

1. Look At The Bigger Picture

If a man is adamant in his fantasy and the unrealistic quest for his “dream woman,” one of the biggest setbacks he will have to face is finding her in the first place. We don’t know that it will happen. If a man wants a dream woman and intends to be in a long-term relationship with her, he needs to change his thinking and look at the bigger picture. He should envision a woman who can help him achieve his dreams as well as share the life he always imagined for himself. It means that he should choose a woman who has all the essential qualities and behavior that are needed to love and support him in realizing those dreams, regardless how she looks.

2. Determine What You Want In Life

This one seems simple. Before your start living the life you always imagined, you first need to decide what your goals are. Clarify your personal vision of a happy, comfortable, exciting and fulfilling life. Once you’ve done that, the next step becomes apparent. Now you know exactly what qualities the woman of your dreams must have to help you to achieve those goals. So go figure yourself out. And until you know yourself and what you need, there is little to no chance that you will find a woman who will love and care for you in wonderful, life-changing ways for who you are.

3. Pair Up With Your Dream Woman

We find it amazing that lots of guys brood and complain about their cruel, selfish women in their lives. This happens because most guys neglected or weren't aware of the pros of “matching up” with their woman in the beginning. To put this into perspective, if you like to travel and always dream of sailing across the world, you need to date or be in a relationship with a woman who is spontaneous, likes being outdoors, is fearless, and has an incredible passion for nature and adventure.

The bottom line is, if you want to be in a relationship with your “dream woman,” first you need to be fully honest about what you envisioned for the future that you want for yourself. Only then will you  find success in your search for the perfect woman.

9 Types of Guys That Women Cannot Stand

When it comes to choosing someone for a relationship, we all have our own list of “can’t stands” and “must haves.” These qualities allow men and women to date a guy or a girl with behavior and traits that they think are important to be in a healthy and long-term relationship. Here we have listed nine types of guys that women simply cannot stand:

1. Mr. Liar, Liar

This is the biggest turn-off for all women. Nobody likes to date or even be with someone with a reputation for lying. Honesty and trust are the bedrock of a secure, successful and long-lasting relationship. Lying is the opposite of all these good traits, and women cannot stand when guys lie to them. This is the number one deal breaker, so, unless you badly want to destroy your relationship or marriage, think twice before you consider being deceitful!

2. Mr. Mean

Another main deal breaker for men looking for a girlfriend is being mean. Being rude, belittling other people, being prejudiced or simply being hateful to others is just a major turn-off for the ladies. Period.

3. Mr. Opportunist

Another “can't stand” when it comes to a man’s personality is the opportunist. It’s very unattractive to most women when their boyfriend uses or takes advantage of or manipulates others for his selfish reasons. Women are looking for a man who is honest, direct, respectful and straightforward with others.

4. Mr. Lazy Bones

Life is too short to spend it lying on the couch watching TV all day, or sleeping the whole day away. Women are looking for someone with ambition, drive, energy and passion.

5. Mr. Hot Head

Angry guys are toxic. Women can't stand a man who shouts, screams and can’t control his temper or anger. If there is something that is bothering you, handle it in a gentle and mature way. Don’t just shut it inside of you until it’s too late to have a calm and decent conversation.

6. Mr. Slob

Just like women, men love to come home to a house that is neat and tidy. Women also love when guys put effort to keep their homes and themselves clean and take pride in it.

7. Mr. Devious

Similar to Mr. Hot Head, this refers to the kind of guy who will send the gals running for the hills. Nobody has that much time for negative energy and drama.

8. Mr. Flake

This is the type of guy who promises you a lot of things but fails or forgets to deliver. He knows that he won’t be able to honor all of his pledges, but he still makes promises so that he can have a relationship with her. It’s sneaky and creepy. Women love men who are reliable, stable, consistent, and steady. Being flaky and unreliable is a huge deal breaker.

9. Mr. Unfaithful

Infidelity is one of the most unfortunate things to happen in a relationship. Cheating on your girlfriend or boyfriend can end your relationship. It’s also one of the primary reasons for divorces. Infidelity can cause tremendous emotional pain that takes a long time to heal from. Needless to say, most women will not date someone who has a history of cheating.