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Reading the Signs: 5 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Flirting With You

It can be hard to tell if someone is interested in you or not. Should you look at their body language? Should you read into what they say? How do you know if they're flirting with you or just having a conversation? We know how stressful it can be to try decoding the signs. For a little help, here are five ways to tell if someone is flirting with you:

1. They turn their body towards you.

If someone turns their body towards you when you're talking, it is a sign of interest. Don't get carried away with this, though. They may just be being polite. If they turn their body away from you, take it as a definite sign they're not interested.

2. They find ways to touch you.

One of the best ways to tell if someone is flirting with you is if they find little ways to touch you. If they graze your arm or bump their elbow into you, either they're flirting or they're really clumsy. Here's to hoping it's flirting!

3. They try to make you laugh.

If someone is constantly trying to make you laugh, they're probably flirting with you. A sense of humor is universally attractive, so someone who is flirting with you wants to show you that they are funny. So if they keep making jokes when you talk to them, this is a good sign.

4. They ask questions about you.

Consider it a definite sign of interest if someone asks you questions about your life. This means that they are genuinely interested in things about you and want to get to know you. It's definitely a way of flirting.

5. They compliment you consistently.

The easiest way to flirt is to compliment someone. So if they keep piling compliments on you, consider it a form of flirting. They want you to know that they're interested in you and they're trying to make you feel good.


The Funny Guy: 6 Tips For Making Women Laugh

Women love guys who can make them laugh. This is an age-old fact. Think of guys like Ryan Reynolds, Paul Rudd and more. If you can make her laugh, you're on the way to winning her heart. Now, we understand that you may not be a natural comedian. No worries, though. We're always here to help. If you want to win her heart through humor, we've got six tips for making women laugh. Check them out below:

1. Figure out her sense of humor.

The first step to making a woman laugh is to figure out her sense of humor. Does she appreciate some wry sarcasm? Does she laugh out loud from over-the-top slapstick comedy? Try to find out what comedians she likes or what her favorite comedy films are. This will give you an idea of what she finds funny and you'll know how to precede from there.

2. Change things up.

If you really want to keep her laughing, you'll need to change things up. Don't always joke about the same things or it will just get old and boring. If you're constantly joking about the same topic, she'll just get tired of talking to you. Show that you can be quick-witted and turn lots of things into something comical.

3. Know your timing.

One of the most important aspects of making women laugh is to know your timing. You can't joke all the time. If every conversation is a comedy routine, she'll think you can never have a real conversation. You need to be able to balance making her laugh with showing her your serious side.

4. Don't laugh at your own jokes.

This one just goes without saying…but we'll say it anyways: Don't laugh at your own jokes. Laughing at your own jokes instantly negates how funny they are and makes you look full of yourself.

5. Avoid being offensive.

This is a very important tip, especially in our modern societal climate. You need to know how to joke without being offensive to her or other people. This means no jokes about race, disability or sexuality. If you have trouble making jokes that aren't about those things, well, comedy may not be your strong suit.

6. Give your material a test run.

If you're unsure of your comedic skills, test them out on other people before using them to flirt with women. See if you can make your friends laugh. Test out some jokes on family members and see how they respond. If no one is laughing at your material, you have some work to do before you try it out with women.

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Are You Serious?: 20 Of The Worst Pickup Lines Ever

Some of them are cute and clever, but most of them are downright awful. We're talking about pickup lines! How many times have you been approached by someone and heard a truly cringe-worthy pickup line? They number of dreadful pickup lines is truly endless, but we've put together the twenty worst pickup lines we've ever heard. Check them out here:

  1. I'm afraid I've lost my teddy bear…can I sleep with you instead?
  2. Can you touch my hand? I want to tell my friends I was “touched by an angel”.
  3. I'm going to need a Band-Aid. I scraped my knee falling for you.
  4. Are those space pants? Because that ass is out of this world!
  5. You must work at Subway, because you just gave me a footlong!
  6. Good thing I have my library card cause I'm definitely checking you out.
  7. Your breasts remind me of Mount Rushmore. My face should be on them.
  8. Your mother must be a beaver, because damn, girl!
  9. My doctor told me that I'm deficient in Vitamin U. Maybe you can help with that.
  10. Feel my sweater – it's made of boyfriend material.
  11. Your name must be Wi-Fi, because we definitely have a connection.
  12. Okay, I'm here. What do you want for your next wish?
  13. Excuse me, but my friend over there is too shy to ask. He wants your phone number so he knows where to reach me tomorrow morning.
  14. Oh no, you've got something in your eye…it's a sparkle.
  15. Don't you remember me? We met in my dreams.
  16. I have 1% percent battery left on my phone and I'm willing to use it by getting your number.
  17. You like pancakes? How about IHOP on that ass?
  18. Girl, you're like a campfire. I just want s'more.
  19. Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again?
  20. Baby, you're the next contestant up on the “Game of Love”.

There you have it! Twenty of the worst pickup lines ever! Burn them into your brain so that you never make a girl cringe with disgust the next time you're flirting!


She’s Just Not That Into You: 7 Signs A Girl Isn’t Interested In You

Women can be hard to read. You can't always decipher the signals that they give off. When talking to a woman you probably wonder, “Does she like me? Does she just want me to go away? What is she thinking about?” It turns out there are some obvious signs that a woman is not at all interested in you. To help you out, read on to find out the eight major signs that a girl isn't interested in you:

1. She's Not Making Eye Contact

If a girl isn't interested in you, she'll avoid making eye contact with you. Eye contact is one of the most important nonverbal indicators of interest. If her eyes are darting around the room, focusing on something behind you, or looking down at the ground, she's letting you know that she's not interested.

2. She Shifts Her Body Away From You

Body language is so important when it comes to telling if someone is interested in you or not. If they like you, they'll find ways to get closer to you. They'll lean in to you when you're talking. On the flip side, if they're not interested in you, they'll lean away from you when talking. They'll shift their body in the direction away from you. This is a clear sign that they're not into you.

3. She Crosses Her Arms

Crossing the arms is a bold signal of defiance and it immediately puts up a wall. If she crosses her arms when talking to you, she's not interested in you. On the other hand, if she holds her arms open and often gestures towards you, she is probably interested. Look at her arms as the door to her heart: it's either opened or closed.

4. She Gives Short Responses or One-Word Answers

If a girl likes you, she'll try to extend the conversation by bringing up more topics, asking you questions, etc. If she's being short with you or giving you one-word answers, she's ready for the conversation to be over. She doesn't want to give you anymore reason to keep talking to her.

5. She Doesn't Smile At All

If a girl isn't interested in you, it's unlikely she'll be smiling. When a girl likes you, she won't be able to stop smiling. When she doesn't like you, it's nearly impossible to smile. This is a very simple equation.

6. She Gives You TMI or Unflattering Information About Herself

When a girl likes you, she wants you to see her in a good light. This means she'll do and say things to make herself look good. So if she's doing or saying things that make her look bad, she probably isn't interested. Sharing too much information or telling unflattering stories about herself means she doesn't care how you see her, meaning she's not interested.

7. She Makes Excuses To Remove Herself From the Conversation

If a girl isn't interested in you, she'll try to remove herself from the conversation. If she's making random excuses to get away from you, it's because she doesn't want to talk to you anymore…because she just isn't interested.

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Flirting 101: 8 Foolproof Ways to Flirt With A Woman

Flirting isn't always easy. A lot of people find it difficult to flirt with someone. What are the right or wrong things to say? What are the non-verbal ways to flirt with someone? We're here to help you out with eight foolproof ways to flirt with a woman:

1. Put In Effort

The most important aspect of flirting is to actually put in the effort. It's not always going to come easy, so you have to do some work. If she sees that you're going out of your way to be around her or to talk to her, it will definitely get her attention. So make sure that you put in some effort when trying to win her over.

2. Make Eye Contact

One of the most important ways to flirt is through eye contact. Eye contact achieves a lot when it comes to flirting. It gets her attention in the first place, and then it lets her know that you're interested. Make sure you lock eyes with her for a few seconds before approaching her. Then maintain eye contact while you're talking. Looking away just makes her think you're not interested in her or what she has to say.

3. Give Her Compliments

Giving compliments is one of the easiest ways to flirt. Let her know that she looks good today or that you like her new haircut. She'll be flattered and she'll be impressed that you noticed something about her. A simple compliment can really turn around someone's day, and it can let her know that you care about how she feels.

4. Show Some Jealousy

You'll need to be careful with this one, because a little bit goes a long way. Don't act too jealous over her, because that will only make her think you're possessive. If you show just a little bit of jealousy when she's giving another guy attention, it will let her know that you're interested in something more with her.

5. Take Her Side

Some women like to be defended. They want a man who has their back. This means that you need to jump in and take her side if a conflict arises between her and someone else. This lets her know that you're going to stand by her and support her in difficult times.

6. Make Her Laugh

A sense of humor is one of the sexiest things a man can possess. Making her laugh is one of the best ways to flirt with her. If you can make her laugh, you'll have her heart in no time. Tell her jokes, make (lightly) sarcastic comments. Keep the jokes non-offensive though, otherwise you'll just come off as an insensitive jerk.

7. Share Something With Her

Women like when you open up to them and share things about yourself. Obviously this doesn't mean anything crazy personal – that's just TMI. It's a good idea to share the things that you like, or what you used to do as a kid. Share things with her that give her some insight into who you are. This will show her that you feel comfortable with her.

8. Ask About Her Life

One of the simplest ways to flirt is to ask her questions about her life. Ask her how work is. Ask her questions about her family or where she went to school. Show her that you're interested in her life and you'll have her swooning in no time.

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Phone Flirting: 4 Ways to Improve Your Flirting Through Texts

We use our cell phones for everything these days. We check the weather, watch video clips, browse the internet and more. We even use our cell phones for flirting! Flirting through texting messages can be a lot easier than flirting in person. It eliminates some of the awkwardness that comes with hitting on someone and having to see their reaction right in front of your face. At the same time, flirting through texts can be difficult. It can be hard to make it clear that you're flirting through a text message, so we've put together four tips to improve your flirting through texts.

1. Emojis and Other Media

Using emojis and pictures is crucial for flirting through texts. Emojis add character to your message. They can also send a clear signal that you are in fact flirting, in case the person receiving the text wasn't sure. For example, a winking emoji can make the difference between an awkward statement and a flirtatious statement. Sometimes you need emojis or gifs to let someone know you're being flirtatious and not just weird.

2. Timing

The right timing is essential if you're flirting through text messages. Texting someone early in the morning (not too early) will let them know you're thinking of them before anything else. Texting them late at night (not too late) lets them know you're thinking of them before going to bed. It's important to consider the time between your texts, also. If you text someone several times in a row without them responding, this is not flirting; it's being compulsive.

3. Tone

Using the right tone is key if you are flirting with someone through texts. Tone doesn't always translate well through testing, so you need to be careful with your word selection and punctuation. A remark that would be perfectly fine in person may be perceived as rude through a text message. If you want to make it clear that you're being flirtatious, try using cute, flirty words or statements. And, as we said earlier, add some emojis in to really make it clear.

4. Length

When flirting through texts, it's important to consider the length of the texts you're sending. Flirty text messages should always be brief. Don't bore someone with a prolific love letter through text messages. Keep it short, sweet, and to-the-point. You also don't want to weigh your texts down with too much information. For example, if they ask how your day was, don't tell them every single detail. It's flirtatious to keep things a little vague, so just give them the basics.

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Is He Into You?: 7 Foolproof Ways to Tell Your Date is Into You

We all know that people are hard to read. It's especially hard to read someone when you're on a date. You're wondering: “Does he like me? Am I annoying him? Does he want to see me again?” These questions can be stressful and agonizing, ultimately ruining your date. Fortunately, you can stop the worrying. We've got seven foolproof ways to tell that your date is into you. Check them out here:

1. He Actually Finishes the Date

This is the first sign that your date is into you. If he actually finishes the date and doesn't ditch you halfway through, you're obviously doing all right. Don't get carried away with this one, though. He may have just finished the date to be polite. Read the rest of our signs to see if he's really into you.

2. The Date Becomes Longer Than Expected

It's midnight when you planned on being home at ten! This is a big sign that the date is going well. If he keeps finding reasons or making excuses to not go home, he's obviously enjoying spending time with you (or he's homeless). If he wasn't into you. he would've run away at the first chance.

3. He Asks For Another Date

This is a definite, absolute sign that your date is into you. Asking for another date will never happen if someone is not interested. So if he asks to see you again, it means he liked you and wants to get to know you more.

4. He Wants Time Alone With You

If your date suggests you leave the crowded bar and move to a more quiet destination, he probably wants to get to know you better. If a guy isn't into you, he'd never want to spend alone time with you. So if he asks to see you one-on-one, look at this as a good sign.

5. He Follows Up With You Soon After the Date

This is an important thing to look at when wondering is your date is into you. If he follows up with you relatively soon after the date, he obviously couldn't wait to speak to you. This means he's interested! Now, on the other hand, if he doesn't follow up for like three weeks, he's just not that into you.

6. He's Not Dating Anyone Else

This sign should go without saying. If your date is really into you, he'll stop seeing other people. If he's still playing the field, then you haven't made that big of an impression on him. He's still interested in seeing what's out there. Don't settle for being an option when you could be a priority.

7. He Plans a Thoughtful Date

Planning a thoughtful date is a big sign that someone is really into you. If a guy just takes you to the same restaurant he takes all his dates, he's not that interested. If he puts in some effort and fins out a specific place you'd like to go, he cares about what you like and that's a great sign that he's really into you.

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5 Ways to Tell a Guy Likes You By His Starbucks Order

This may sound silly, but it’s totally possible. How can you really tell whether a man likes you? Apart from the stuff that you’ve been reading in websites and books, apparently you can tell if a guy is interested in you by checking out the drink he orders when he goes to Starbucks. We aren’t joking. Seriously, looking at his Starbucks order might be all the hints that you’ll need to figure out if a guy is attracted you.

Here are five signs you need to keep an eye on:

1. If He Orders The Same Thing As You

If a man orders the same items you did when you both are at Starbucks, then he surely likes you. But, the problem might be that he likes you a bit too much. Just like you can tell a lot about a person from the kinds of music he or she listens to, you can get a  lot of information about a person from their Starbucks order. If a guy is taking your order instead of his own, it means he's desperately trying to impress you. It’s sweet, but this behavior makes it hard for you to get to know his real personality.

2. If He Orders Things Not On The Menu

A dude ordering a Starbucks drink or anything that isn't on the menu means he likes you, but this approach won’t work well in the end. It indicates he wants you to want him. He feels insecure a little bit, but he won’t let you know about it. He wants to be Mr. Humble, but he's also trying to be edgy and unique, and ordering a drink that’s not on the list shows that.

3. If He Asks For A Novelty Frappuccino

If you see a guy ordering a novelty frappuccino, it means that he is less interested in you, but is looking forward to staying single. This means he is very trend-obsessed. He is less likely to be worried whether or not you’ve called or texted him back. But, there’s one thing he’s pretty worried about: why his Facebook or Instagram photos aren't getting more likes. He might think you're cute and cool, but he's also too focused to be cool and nice himself and will do anything for it.

4. If He Orders A Plain Black Coffee

A guy who orders black coffee at Starbucks definitely knows what he’s looking for in a woman. This guy is a keeper, ladies! If you see a guy ordering a black coffee, it means that he is more interested in you, but has little to no interest in what he is drinking. He is less fussy when it comes to beverages, and he applies the same principle to relationships. But, there is a catch: he can also be cheap or frugal. So be watchful.

5. If He Orders Tea!

If you’re looking for a date, and happen to be at Starbucks, and see a guy ordering tea, it means that he isn’t afraid to go against the crowd. Or, it could be that he simply doesn't like drinking coffee. A dude ordering tea at Starbucks tells you that he is thoughtful, smart, and sensitive. He likes you, but he’s looking for a serious and committed relationship. So, be careful. Or maybe he just likes tea!

5 Ways To Let A Woman Know You’re Interested Without Saying a Word

How can you tell a woman you like her without actually telling her?Well, it turns out that it's all about body language. According to experts, 55 percent of our communication is expressed with our body, while only 7 percent is expressed with our words.  The remaining 38 percent originates from our tone of voice. So, with our posture, mannerisms and eye contact we can let someone know we're interested in them.

Here are five body language clues that a man can use to show a woman he's attracted to her:

1. He Touches His Face

A man who's interested in a girl will make her look at his face. He does this by touching his face at various times. He might also touch his ears, scratch his chin, run his fingers through his hair, or lick his lips – all of this screams that he’s attracted to her. By the way, all of these body language signs are also seen in women when they’re attracted to a man. One big reason both men and woman touch or lick their lips when they see someone attractive or sexy is because lips are one of the most erogenous zones in the human body. So, we subconsciously feel good when we touch them.

2. He raises his eyebrows

When a guy is excited, the pupils of his eyes will become wider than usual. When this occurs, the eyebrows rise and fall as the eyes get bigger. If a woman talks to a man and he feels attracted to her, you can easily see that his eyebrows go up and down while having a conversation with her. Body language specialists also report that a man will become more lively when talking to a girl that he feels attracted to, as he is trying to lure her in.

3. He Fidgets With His Drink

If you see a guy playing with his drink while speaking with a lady, it doesn’t mean that he’s bored or worried. Instead, he’s actually into her. Guys, who are sexually attracted to a girl, might play with things using their hands. For instance, he’ll try to peel off the label of his beer bottle, adjust his watch, tie, undo his cuff links, etc.  The fidgeting will become more pronounced the more attracted he is.

4. He Leans Towards Her

If a man feels interested in a woman, he’ll lean towards her. He’ll also look into her eyes. If he keeps looking into her eyes while having a conversation with her, it’s an indication that he’s interested.

5. He Touches Her

While dating a woman, if a man feels attracted to her, he’ll subconsciously touch her throughout the whole date. Even the most sensitive and shy guys will attempt to nudge her elbow, hand, or back. The challenging part for any woman here is to understand whether these delicate touches are accidental or on purpose. If it’s on purpose, then his intentions are clear and he is interested.

3 Ways Girls Can Flirt Without Saying a Word

If you're looking for a date, it's important to know how to flirt. Not everyone is a natural at flirting, but it is a skill that can be learned. The importance of flirting is tremendous when it comes to dating and relationships. Why? Flirting sends a jolt of electricity through your veins, gives you a warm sensation and butterflies in your stomach. You feel an instant high when a woman is flirting with you.

Attraction is one of the most arduous aspects of love. When you find someone you're attracted to, you want to find a way to let that person know you're interested. While there isn’t any problem when you directly tell the person you like them, it might make you feel a little uncomfortable. It could also make you look a bit desperate and vulnerable.

Some folks just know how to flirt; it feels natural to them. It’s simply who they are. They know the right thing to say to the man they like which will drive him insane. Not all of us have that skill. Most men and woman just sit there figuring out how to approach someone without feeling awkward. What most people fail to realize is that when you flirt with someone, you don’t always have to speak to them.

You see, you can still flirt with someone without talking. It’s totally possible and it’s much easier than you think. Body language is just as crucial as verbal cues. Here are a few ways that a woman flirts with a guy without saying a single word:

1. She uses her mouth.
If a woman likes you, she will give you a sexy half smile. She might bite her lower lip or lick her lips if she’s daring. She does this to draw your attention to her and let you know that she wants you to kiss her.

2. She twirls her hair.
This one is a no-brainer. If a woman is interested in someone and wants to flirt with him, she will twirl her hair. This simple yet cute gesture is very expressive and draws attention to her face.

3. She raises her eyebrows.
There’s a saying: the eyes are the window to the soul. Whether it works or not, a person’s eyes can easily express love, lust, desire, and attraction. If you a see a woman lifting her eyebrow while looking at you it means that she’s trying to grab your attention.

Before we end, here’s a handy tip that both men and women can use to improve their flirting techniques. The first thing you should do is to slow down your breathing. Slow breathing relaxes you and it lets your partner know that you are ready to take things to a whole new level. These subtle cues will help you to become a master at flirting in no time!