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9 Types of Guys That Women Cannot Stand

When it comes to choosing someone for a relationship, we all have our own list of “can’t stands” and “must haves.” These qualities allow men and women to date a guy or a girl with behavior and traits that they think are important to be in a healthy and long-term relationship. Here we have listed nine types of guys that women simply cannot stand:

1. Mr. Liar, Liar

This is the biggest turn-off for all women. Nobody likes to date or even be with someone with a reputation for lying. Honesty and trust are the bedrock of a secure, successful and long-lasting relationship. Lying is the opposite of all these good traits, and women cannot stand when guys lie to them. This is the number one deal breaker, so, unless you badly want to destroy your relationship or marriage, think twice before you consider being deceitful!

2. Mr. Mean

Another main deal breaker for men looking for a girlfriend is being mean. Being rude, belittling other people, being prejudiced or simply being hateful to others is just a major turn-off for the ladies. Period.

3. Mr. Opportunist

Another “can't stand” when it comes to a man’s personality is the opportunist. It’s very unattractive to most women when their boyfriend uses or takes advantage of or manipulates others for his selfish reasons. Women are looking for a man who is honest, direct, respectful and straightforward with others.

4. Mr. Lazy Bones

Life is too short to spend it lying on the couch watching TV all day, or sleeping the whole day away. Women are looking for someone with ambition, drive, energy and passion.

5. Mr. Hot Head

Angry guys are toxic. Women can't stand a man who shouts, screams and can’t control his temper or anger. If there is something that is bothering you, handle it in a gentle and mature way. Don’t just shut it inside of you until it’s too late to have a calm and decent conversation.

6. Mr. Slob

Just like women, men love to come home to a house that is neat and tidy. Women also love when guys put effort to keep their homes and themselves clean and take pride in it.

7. Mr. Devious

Similar to Mr. Hot Head, this refers to the kind of guy who will send the gals running for the hills. Nobody has that much time for negative energy and drama.

8. Mr. Flake

This is the type of guy who promises you a lot of things but fails or forgets to deliver. He knows that he won’t be able to honor all of his pledges, but he still makes promises so that he can have a relationship with her. It’s sneaky and creepy. Women love men who are reliable, stable, consistent, and steady. Being flaky and unreliable is a huge deal breaker.

9. Mr. Unfaithful

Infidelity is one of the most unfortunate things to happen in a relationship. Cheating on your girlfriend or boyfriend can end your relationship. It’s also one of the primary reasons for divorces. Infidelity can cause tremendous emotional pain that takes a long time to heal from. Needless to say, most women will not date someone who has a history of cheating.


7 Signs That He Is Not Interested In You

Sometimes the old clichés are true and it hurts to know the truth. But, knowing the truth also sets you free. We all have been in situations where, despite doing everything by the book, our partners don’t have the same feelings towards us. Here are a few signs that show that he’s not interested in you:

1. He says he’s not ready for a relationship.

Pay heed to his lines. If he says that he’s not into relationships, it means that he doesn’t believe in marriage. He’s just looking for fun, that’s it. He’s not interested in you and won’t be committed to you. So, cut him loose and find someone who’s looking for a relationship and values it.

2. He asks you to date other guys.

If your partner encourages you to see other guys, it’s not because he wants you to enrich your dating experiences by dating multiple people at the same time. In fact, he’s telling you that he’s not interested in having you all to himself. In other words, he doesn’t want to have an exclusive relationship with you. If this thought makes you uncomfortable, you should start dating someone else who wants an exclusive relationship.

3. He won’t hold hands or show PDA with you.

He hugs and kisses you privately. He won’t hold hands or put his hand over your shoulder or waist in public. It feels like he is not comfortable or feels ashamed to be with you in public. You want to be with someone who should feel happy, comfortable and proud to date you.

4. He won’t make plans in advance.

We aren’t saying that your new boyfriend should plan a getaway six months in the future, but if he feels hesitant to go for dinner next weekend or to a close friend’s birthday party, then you have a problem. It clearly shows that you aren’t his priority and he’s not invested in the relationship. If he were serious about you, none of these would be an issue.

5. He tries to not introduce you to his friends and family.

If he skips meeting your family on the weekend and makes all kinds of excuses to make you stay away from meeting his family or friends when you ask for it, this clearly indicates that he’s not thrilled with you being around him or his family and friends. A guy who is crazy about you can hardly wait to introduce you to his family and friends.

6. He forgets the important stuff and talks about the same things again and again.

Some men are forgetful. Some guys are so not interested in the relationship that they won’t make an effort to remember any important details. Instead, he will tell you the same stories and jokes over and over again and always be disconnected when you’re having a conversation with him. Does he remember your birthday? Can he recall what your favorite food or flower is? If he can't, we can safely say he’s not into you.

7. He delays returning your calls or text messages.

If you call him and text him and he doesn’t respond quickly, it’s time you evaluate your relationship with your new boyfriend. We understand that sometimes he can’t answer or respond to your calls and texts because he’s busy with work or doing something else, but if there has been delays more than 24 hours, then it’s clear you aren’t very important to him. It’s time you leave and get yourself someone new. To get a clear idea how a guy should react when he is interested in you, read this article.


5 Ways To See If A Guy Is Into You

Whether you’re checking out that hunky guy at the bar, or the man you’re having a first date with and thinking that he might be a keeper, you won’t go anywhere unless you know how to tell if a man likes you. Here are five ways that will help you figure it out:

1. Analyze His Body Language

A big clue about whether he's interested in you or not is his body language. Does he lean towards you while you talk? It doesn’t matter if it’s a subtle lead-in or a full-fledged bow. If he leans towards you, then he is interested in you. Also check if he keeps leaning in when you are chatting with him, sitting across the dinner table from him, and so on. If he leans back every time you lean in, then it’s not a good sign.

2. Access His Eye Contact

They say, “the eyes are the window to the soul.” If he is into you, he’ll gaze into your eyes. If someone at the bar makes consistent eye contact with you, then give him something back too. Make eye contact! Let him know you’re interested in knowing him too! It will give him the sign that he can come over and have a conversation. Direct eye contact is a good hint that he’s not only interested in you but also curious to know more about you.

3. He Wants To Be Closer To You

If you’re on a date and discover that he’s looking for every chance to touch you, whether it’s a subtle pat on your arm, knee or shoulder, he probably likes you. These so-called “accidental” touches are done on purpose to convey that the man is into you. If you’re walking through a crowded place or heading to your dinner table at the restaurant, he’ll guide you by putting his arm on your back. It means that he wants to take you to the place you want, but also ensure that it is the same place he is going to. In short, he’s taking care of you.

4. He Is Copying You

When a man copies your actions subconsciously, it can only mean one thing; he is interested in you. If you notice your date brushing his hair back like you at the same time or imitating your gestures at the dinner table, it means he’s building rapport with you.

5. He Wants To Relate To You.

When it comes to falling in love, men and women are drawn to each other when they share common interests. Therefore, if a man is interested in you, he will look for more ways to relate to you. While having a conversation with you, he will share things with you: his hobbies, his views, his life goals, his experiences, and in some cases even his personal secrets. He does all of these things to find common ground with you and see that you’re compatible with him. For example, he will ask you to pick the movie, your favorite dessert, or he will ask whether he can join you for your next yoga class, etc. All these point to him being interested in getting to know more about you!


5 Ways to Stop Obsessing Over a Guy For Good

We all have been obsessive about something in our lives. One of the worst obsessions out there is yearning for someone who got away and who was never meant to be your partner. When it comes to dating and relationships, obsessive thoughts are rife in women. We have seen many single and successful women like doctors, lawyers, teachers, etc., talking about the men they are dating. They keep talking about how they are still waiting for his text message before going to bed, waiting for the call from their boyfriends, etc. They become anxious and get stressed out by over-thinking about what will happen if this guy asks them out for the weekend. These women could have gotten any man they wanted, and yet they are obsessing over a guy who is making them wait for hours just for a call. Why is that?

Women are attracted to men who might like them, instead of men who already are interested. However, women feel like if a man is keeping them on pins and needles, then there is some interest in the guy. This means the guy is providing them some attention to fuel their obsession.

If you discover yourself in this situation, here are a few tips to help you stop obsessing over guys like this:

1. Face Your Fears

We all have our fears and insecurities. We need to get them out so that we can confront them. Writing down or talking about these fears will help you get it out of your head.

2. Limit Your Obsessions

Fix a day and a specific amount of time (say 10 minutes) to permit yourself to be obsessive. When the obsessive thoughts come to your mind, and it comes at the day and time outside of your schedule, tell yourself it is not time. Only reserve those thoughts for the time you allowed previously.

3. Ask For Help From Friends

Friends are there to help and support you during the sad times. Friends can help you differentiate between facts and fiction. If you’re sure that your boyfriend is hanging out with someone else and there is no evidence, your close friend can tell you that you shouldn’t think like this unless you have substantial evidence.

4. Keep Yourself Distracted

When you start to obsess, immediately direct your feelings and thoughts to a different thought or action. For instance, when you begin obsessing over something, tell yourself you will do twenty push-ups or listen to your favorite podcasts. Immediately, you will either see yourself thinking of something else rather than obsessing over him.

5. Shut Off All Communication

If you’re anxious that he won't call and you make yourself unavailable, this will keep your ego intact. You can tell yourself either he called, or he didn't, but you were unavailable. This tactic will give all the control back to you. There are plenty of examples where people obsessing over their ex got terribly out of control. The obsession may fuel the affection, but it will distract you from being YOU. Don’t let your obsessive thoughts control your life.

Therefore, if you’re dating someone, and you find yourself in this situation, these steps might help you to alleviate your obsessions.


How to have a Guy Ways to Have Him Missing You Like Crazy

We all enjoy spending time with the person we love, but we can't spend every second together. Sometimes we just need space or time apart. You also can't always be together because of things like work and school. Even if you're apart, you still want the guy you like thinking about you, right? Every girl secretly loves a guy obsessing over her when he's not with her. Here are 7 tips to have him missing you like crazy when you're not around:

Spending Time Apart

They say, “absence makes the heart grow fonder”. There is a lot of truth to this old sentiment. We don't know how much we enjoy someone's company until we're without it.

So the first way to make him miss you like crazy is to give him some space. How can someone miss you if you're always around? This may be difficult because when you like someone you want to spend a lot of time with them. However, it's important to spend some time apart for him to realize how much he values you and your time together.

Don't Text/Call Constantly

This goes along with giving him some space. If you're constantly texting and calling him, it will feel like you never left. It can also become annoying if you're contacting him when he's busy.

If you keep the contact to a minimum, it will have him missing you like crazy. He'll start to miss speaking to you and hearing from you. It will also make you more intriguing, as he'll wonder what you're doing when you're not in touch with him.

Text Strategically

While you don't want to text him constantly, you do want to text him every so often. Psychologists say the best time to contact a guy you're interested in is at night. This will make him more likely to dream of you and think of you when he wakes up the next morning.

Looking Your Best

This is more of a tip for making him attracted to you because the more he's attracted to you, the more he'll miss you. It's known that men tend to be more visual than women are. They rely more on their physical attraction to a woman than anything else. When a man finds a woman that he's really attracted to, he'll be thinking of her when he's not with her. So it's important to look your best when you're with him so you'll be on his mind when you're not together.

Gift-Giving

Not only is giving him a gift a nice way of showing you care, it is also a great way to get him to miss you. Give him something special for his birthday or just because you were thinking of him.

If you really want to give him something that reflects your relationship, make it a personalized gift. This could be something that has a picture of you on it or something that makes him think of you (a movie you saw together, a souvenir from somewhere you visited together, etc.)  Whenever he sees this gift, it will remind him of how much you care about him and have him missing you terribly.

Physical Contact

The physical contact you have when you're together will make him miss you like crazy when you're apart. Gently stroke his arm or tough his hand. He'll be thinking of these little moments when the two of you are not together.

Social Media

Be active on social media when you're not with him. When you're out with friends, make sure to take pictures of yourself looking good and having a great time. When he sees the pictures of you hanging out with friends and having fun, it shows him you're not boring and makes you more desirable. Seeing how much fun you have with other people will have him missing you like crazy and wishing that you were having fun with him.

While you definitely enjoy spending time with your guy, you know you can't be together all the time. At least now you have seven tips that will keep you on his mind when the two of you are apart.