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Red Flag Radar: 4 Major Signs Your Relationship Is In Trouble

Are you worried that your relationship is on the rocks? Sometimes it can be hard to tell if you're just going through a rough patch or if you're headed for a breakup. Check out these four major signs your relationship is in trouble:

1. You're Bored All the Time

While it's completely normal to feel bored at different points in your relationship, it's a bad sign if you're bored all of the time. Do you find that you never have any fun with your partner? Do you only enjoy the company of friends, family or co-workers? If so, this is a red flag for your relationship. You shouldn't feel bored all the time when you're with your partner. You should still find enjoyment in each other's company and be able to have fun together. Constant boredom could be a sign that the relationship has run its course.

2. You Rarely (Or Never) Have Sex Anymore

The longer a relationship lasts, the more likely you are to experience ruts in your sex life. This totally expected. However, if you cannot come out of that rut, you may have a problem. If you've gone for a very long period of time without having sex, it could be that you and your partner are not feeling the same passion you once felt for one another…which means the relationship could be headed for its end. Healthy couples are able to re-ignite that spark and get their sex life back on track. If you're having trouble doing that, things aren't looking good.

3. You Don't Celebrate Anniversaries Or Milestones Together

Now, don't get us wrong here. You don't have to celebrate every single anniversary in some big, extravagant way for the rest of your lives. With that said, if you find that neither one of you cares to acknowledge your anniversary (or just plain forgets it every year) it could mean that you no longer feel that love and attachment you once felt for your partner. You no longer value the meaning behind your anniversary and you no longer feel the desire to celebrate the milestones you've reached together. This could be the beginning of the end.

4. You Feel Resentment Towards Your Partner

One of the biggest signs that your relationship is in trouble is feeling resentment towards your partner. Your partner is the person in your life that you should always feel love and compassion for, not anger and resentment. Do you find yourself blaming them for everything? You may feel that being with your partner has ruined your life or ruined your chance of having the life you once wanted. This all falls under the feeling of resentment and it is very bad for your relationship long term. The resentment will only build as time goes on and eventually lead to the relationship crashing and burning.

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On the Rocks: 5 Signs Your Relationship Is Ending

How do you know when a relationship is nearing the end? How can you tell that a breakup is in your near future? It's not always easy to spot the signs that your relationship is over, but we're always here to help. Check out five signs your relationship is ending below:

1. Your Partner Is Spending Time More Time With Friends and Family

If you find that your partner is spending more time with their friends and family while they're barely spending time with you, it could mean that your relationship is nearing its end. They are likely bored with you or knowing that they want out of the relationship, so they are transitioning to spending less and less time with you until it's nothing at all.

2. They Don't Tell You About Their Life Anymore

When you're happy and in love, your partner is always the first person you want to tell big news, So when your partner isn't telling you that something big has happened in their life, it's because they don't care to tell you. For instance, if they got a promotion at work and you're the last one to know, your relationship is officially on the rocks.

3. You Don't Do Anything Fun Anymore

Every relationship has inevitable ruts where you stop going out and doing “special” things. However, even during these ruts, most couples are still able to have fun together, whether it's just cooking dinner or watching TV. If you find that you can't seem to have fun with your partner no matter what you're doing, it's probably over.

4. You're Fantasizing About Other People…A Lot

Everyone fantasizes about someone other than their partner at some point. With that said, if you find that you're constantly fantasizing about other people or that there is one particular person you can't stop fantasizing about, it's because you're just not that into your partner anymore and maybe it's time to end the relationship.

5. You Don't Talk About the Future Anymore

In a healthy relationship, couples often make plans for their future together. If you find that you and your partner are no longer discussing your future, or that you are imaging a future without them, it's time to just end the relationship. You no longer see them as staying in your life, so you might as well end it now.

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