Have you found yourself “forever alone”? Do you wonder why you haven't been in a relationship for a long time? We may have your answer! Check out eight possible reasons you're still single:
1. You're Too Picky
Having a type is acceptable. Having certain standards is reasonable. However, if your type resembles a Hollywood movie star, it's not likely you're going to meet someone who fits in that category. If your standards are unachievable, you'll never meet someone. If you are too picky and set your expectations too high, you're going to be single a long time.
2. You're Not Putting In The Effort
Finding the right person requires some effort. You need to work on yourself before you can expect anyone to want to be with you. if you're walking around like a slob, people will see that you just don't care to put in the effort. Take pride in yourself and clean yourself up. Otherwise, don't be surprised when you're still single a long time from now.
3. You're Holding On To Anger
If you want to be in a healthy relationship, you need to let go of any anger you hold against old flames. If you're still upset over previous relationships, it will be impossible to find love with someone new. If you're bitter over someone who wronged you, it could be the reason you're still single.
4. You Don't Treat Other People Well
Let's face it: Maybe you're just a jerk. The reason you're still single might be the way you treat people. If you don't treat the people in your life well, you can't expect anyone to want to be around you. Try to take a step back and see if you are treating your friends and family with respect and compassion.
5. You Aren't Putting Yourself Out There
If you never leave the house, it could be the reason you're still single. You need to put yourself out there if you want to find someone. Find some hobbies or things to do that might help you meet someone. If you only hang out at home, you're going to remain single.
6. You Give Too Much
Dating and relationships require balance. If you are over-zealous in a relationship, it might be why you're still single. If you call someone constantly or want to spend every second with them, you're going to drive them crazy. No one wants to be with someone who is super clingy.
7. You Give Too Little
Like we said, dating and relationships require balance. You don't want to do too much, but you also don't want to do too little. If you act like you don't care, people will believe that you don't care. You need to show someone you are interested, but not so much that you scare them away.
8. You're Not Confident
This might be the biggest reason you're still single. If you have low self-esteem, that will be obvious to the people around you. Confidence is attractive, The more confident you are, the more people will want to be around you. Be sure of who you are and have confidence.