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Over It: 30 Compliments Women Are Tired Of Hearing

It's always nice to receive a compliment…or is it? While everyone realizes that compliments are well-intentioned, they don't always come off that way. Some compliments can seem backhanded and others can just be downright annoying. You may think that you're doing something nice by complimenting a woman, but you need to make sure your compliment isn't misconstrued. Read on to find out 30 compliments women are tired of hearing:

  1. I really love how thick you are!
  2. You look great now that you've lost weight.
  3. Your hair looks good now that you've cut it.
  4. I like how exotic you look.
  5. You're cute, not sexy.
  6. You look great for your age.
  7. I like how you don't put a lot of effort into looking good.
  8. You look so much better in person than in pictures!
  9. You have such a pretty face for a big girl.
  10. You look good…are you wearing makeup today?
  11. You look a lot younger than you are.
  12. I like you because you're not like other girls.
  13. You're really smart for a girl!
  14. I liked your hair when it was longer/shorter/straighter/curlier.
  15. I like how you don't care what you wear.
  16. You look so much healthier today!
  17. That outfit makes you look so much skinnier.
  18. You're really cute for a short girl.
  19. I don't normally like tall girls, but you look good.
  20. You'd be so much prettier without all that makeup!
  21. You've really filled out nicely!
  22. I just love it when you wear this color.
  23. You're really pretty when you have a tan.
  24. You looked so good when you covered up the dark under eye circles.
  25. You have a great body. You should show more skin!
  26. I don't normally like girls with flat chests, but you look good.
  27. You look so much better when you cover up.
  28. You're really pretty for a muscular girl.
  29. I didn't think girls could be funny until I met you!
  30. You're too pretty to be this smart!

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Gaining Charisma: 5 Conversation Techniques That Will Attract People To You

Have you gone on date after date and had no luck in your love life? Are you wondering where you're going wrong? It may be that you're pushing people away with your conversation skills. Many of us have a hard time communicating in a healthy way and it comes through when we first meet people. Our poor conversation skills end up turning people off and before we know it, we've been single for years. Is there any way to improve your conversation skills? Lucky for all of us, there is! Check out these five conversation techniques that will make you ten times more attractive:

1. Listen

The most important of all conversation techniques is to listen. You cannot have a good conversation without being an active listener. Too many people talk and talk and talk but never really listen. Show the other person that you're hearing them by asking questions about what they're saying.

2. Don't Try Too Hard

Never try too hard when you're talking to someone. It will come through in everything you say and all of your mannerisms. You should just relax and be yourself when talking with someone. This will let them see your personality shine through in the conversation.

3. Be Positive

No one likes a negative person. In any conversation, keep complaining and critiquing to a minimum, or non-existent. Instead, be positive in what you say. Talk about things you like and compliment things that you think highly of. This will show the person you're speaking to that you are a positive, uplifting person.

4. Don't Gossip

Gossiping is one of the most unattractive things you can do. All it does is show the person you're talking to that you are petty and cannot be trusted. It's just an inconsiderate act that should be avoided in all conversations.

5. Make Eye Contact

One of the most crucial conversation techniques is making eye contact. Avoiding eye contact when you are talking to someone is incredibly off-putting and shows several bad things. It creates the idea that you're insecure or that you're not trustworthy. It makes it almost impossible to make a real connection with someone. For this reason, make sure you maintain eye contact when you are talking to someone.

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She’s Just Not That Into You: 7 Signs A Girl Isn’t Interested In You

Women can be hard to read. You can't always decipher the signals that they give off. When talking to a woman you probably wonder, “Does she like me? Does she just want me to go away? What is she thinking about?” It turns out there are some obvious signs that a woman is not at all interested in you. To help you out, read on to find out the eight major signs that a girl isn't interested in you:

1. She's Not Making Eye Contact

If a girl isn't interested in you, she'll avoid making eye contact with you. Eye contact is one of the most important nonverbal indicators of interest. If her eyes are darting around the room, focusing on something behind you, or looking down at the ground, she's letting you know that she's not interested.

2. She Shifts Her Body Away From You

Body language is so important when it comes to telling if someone is interested in you or not. If they like you, they'll find ways to get closer to you. They'll lean in to you when you're talking. On the flip side, if they're not interested in you, they'll lean away from you when talking. They'll shift their body in the direction away from you. This is a clear sign that they're not into you.

3. She Crosses Her Arms

Crossing the arms is a bold signal of defiance and it immediately puts up a wall. If she crosses her arms when talking to you, she's not interested in you. On the other hand, if she holds her arms open and often gestures towards you, she is probably interested. Look at her arms as the door to her heart: it's either opened or closed.

4. She Gives Short Responses or One-Word Answers

If a girl likes you, she'll try to extend the conversation by bringing up more topics, asking you questions, etc. If she's being short with you or giving you one-word answers, she's ready for the conversation to be over. She doesn't want to give you anymore reason to keep talking to her.

5. She Doesn't Smile At All

If a girl isn't interested in you, it's unlikely she'll be smiling. When a girl likes you, she won't be able to stop smiling. When she doesn't like you, it's nearly impossible to smile. This is a very simple equation.

6. She Gives You TMI or Unflattering Information About Herself

When a girl likes you, she wants you to see her in a good light. This means she'll do and say things to make herself look good. So if she's doing or saying things that make her look bad, she probably isn't interested. Sharing too much information or telling unflattering stories about herself means she doesn't care how you see her, meaning she's not interested.

7. She Makes Excuses To Remove Herself From the Conversation

If a girl isn't interested in you, she'll try to remove herself from the conversation. If she's making random excuses to get away from you, it's because she doesn't want to talk to you anymore…because she just isn't interested.

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