So, you scored a date. Congrats! The first challenge is almost done. Now instead of thinking of what kind of dress or hairstyle you will need to meet your date, you should be worrying about how to take your date to the next level. The first dates are usually very stressful and scary, as there is an immense pressure to impress the other person. But, there is some good news. You can learn how to seduce someone into an actual relationship with you.
Here are two ways to seduce your date:
Recognize Your Imperfections
We know you didn’t ask for this. But, that’s the reality. You’ve had deal with your flaws if you want to be in an actual relationship. Figure out what they are, and confront them, face on. This might seem perfectly normal to some people; others may not realize that talking about how great or good you are during a date is an absolute turn-off.
We understand that it might not be your motive, but boasting about your best qualities and accomplishments can make you appear as self-centered, narcissist, and snobbish. Therefore, stop trying too hard to sell yourself to your potential partner, and let them do all the thinking and figuring to find what’s your real personality. An excellent way to impress your date is by confidently acknowledging your imperfections. Recognizing your shortcomings can make you attractive to your potential partner. However, you shouldn’t tell all of your flaws that will make you look like a loser. Doing is will be more of a turn-off to your date that bragging. The key here is to tell your date that, you aren’t perfect and you’re willing to share your failings with him or her with ease and confidence, and you’re fully okay with it.
Accept Your Date's Flaws
Now that you’re done with the first step, it’s time for the next one. The next one is to demonstrate that you're accepting of your date’s flaws the same way you did with yours. If your intention is to master the tactics to seduce someone, you need to take them off of the hook regarding the unattainable, and sometimes, crazy expectations you had about your dates. That doesn’t mean that you will act like you adore and like everything about your date as that can be a major turn-off, not to mention super-creepy. The reason is that it’s deeply worrying to be obviously adored as deep down most men and women understand that they aren’t worthy of this great acclaim.
When we stop telling lies and honest with ourselves, we all know very well that we aren’t perfect, no matter how good we seem to others. Most folks want their boyfriends or girlfriends to recognize their flaws upfront. This way they don’t have to anxious that sometime in the future these flaws of theirs won’t become a problem later on in the relationship.
When you’re looking for a relationship, it’s important to keep up with the realities of life. We all have our inadequacies and failures. Recognizing them and being at ease with is what makes a relationship healthy and long-lasting.