Life is a lot about making compromises and settling for things against our will. For instance, we may agree to eat a certain place not because we want but because someone we love like their food. We agree to meet certain people despite our dislike for them just because someone close wanted us to attend that gathering. Our compromises are usually for people who matter a lot, and those who we know are worth it. However, there are some things which should never be compromised on. Relationships are one of them. The relationship is long term and affects each and every part of our life so that a toxic relationship can bring a lot of difficulties. There are some traits in a person that immediately signal you that the relationship is not worth making an effort for and this article will talk about those traits.
#1 Partner who doesn’t give 100 percent
A successful relationship is all about the keen interest shown by both of the partners. If one of them doesn’t show an equal level of interest or seems to be lost most of the time, then it is the time to give that relationship a second thought. Involvement as well should be equal from both sides, and not one person should be left to support the relationship.
#2 Partner who is full of ego
There is no ego when two people love each other. They should both be open to each other where both are willing to accept their mistakes whenever they do something wrong. This is what actually builds trust and strengthens a relationship. If one out of the two displays ego all the time and refuses to accept his/her mistakes, then that is totally unacceptable.
#3 Someone who cannot take a good sense of humor
One way to lessen the tensions of life and to make it easy to bear is to know how to laugh some of it off. A good sense of humor is like a blessing if one person in the relationship has it. Some, however, get too serious and instead shut the other one up when they try to lighten the mood. Such people are bad energy and should be left alone.
#4 Someone who won’t grow with you
Your life partner needs to bring out the positivity in you and encourage you to pursue your dreams. If at any point you feel as if he/she is putting you down and becoming rather a hurdle in your way of success then that is a sign that he/she is not the right person.
#5 A partner who is not compassionate
There is a reason why two people come in a relationship because they want someone to share their life with. If the other person shows a careless attitude where he/she is too busy to listen to whatever you have to say or who doesn’t have time to make you realize how much you mean to them then that person is certainly not worth all that effort.
After this, it is time you take a break and sort that relationship out for once.