Sometimes he’s not ready. Or it might be the timing. And then is the harsh truth, he thought that you weren’t the right woman for him. But, why me? You can drive yourself insane wondering about this, but the real thing that you should know is just one thing, “emotional attraction.” Emotional attraction extends beyond physical attraction. It’s the emotional appeal that makes him feel that he can’t live without you at a deep level.
Here are three ways you can invoke emotional attraction in him, and create a solid foundation for a secure and long-lasting relationship.
He Wants You To Accept Him And Want Him Just As He Is
Men want their dates to accept and want him just the way he is. It applies to both men and women alike. If a man senses that you wanted to change or transform him into something that he hates, but you like, then he’ll lose attraction for you. Rather, show a guy that you’ve accepted him by communicating your appreciation and gratitude for him like how much you enjoy being with him, spending time with him, and being thankful for whatever he does that you like.
He Discovers That You’re Not Dependent On Him For Your Happiness
Do you want to know one of the fears most guys have about relationships and commitment? That is if women want them to fill a need which is they want a husband, have kids and start a family. Just like any other women, they want to be wanted and loved for who they are. They don’t want to needed or loved for what they can give. When a guy thinks that his whole life will be revolved around you and you’ve already asked him for commitment in the relationship, he’ll be stressed out and feel pressured. He’ll worry to live his life as per your expectations, and he’ll also feel nervous to upset you. He’ll keep wondering what he did to you to deserve this. To counter this, you need to have a life outside your relationship.
Have fun with your friends or family, get a hobby, pursue your interests and get involved in activities that you’ve always wanted to do, and try improving your life and career. If you continue doing this, he will start to think he is lucky and happy to have you in his life, and he’ll do his best to keep it that way.
He Doesn’t Want To Lose You
You don’t see men telling people I am looking for that one woman who will complete me, and spend the rest of my life with her. On the contrary, a guy is seeking a woman who will inspire him to be with her, and only her, and no one else. But, talking a man to do this feeling won’t be simple, but it isn’t impossible. The best way to become a man’s only woman is not to tell him, but to show him that his life will be much better and beautiful with you instead of without you. This can be done by creating positive experiences with him, together. Don’t talk about the relationship; instead try to make it better, easy, fun and playful and flirty. All these will invoke the all important emotional attraction and intimacy that will get him to understand that only a fool will let go of you.